By hollyglambert - 27/03/2016 17:21 - Canada - Victoria
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OP here. Thanks everyone. Don't worry I won't be seeing him again. Also responding to that one guy, I did not expect him to pay the bill however I would have liked to go halves instead of pay for us both. Anyways thanks guys :)
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If you ever see that guy again, Please kindly beat the shit out of him or have someone else do it if you are unable
The date shouldn't have gone long enough to get a bill. You should have walked when he started browsing Tinder.
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why should a guy always pay the bill?! can't you both split it in half or in accordance to what you ordered? it's not like he's the only one having a meal! although in this case the guy is a douche but I'm saying in general..
My boyfriend and I had this conversation last night after we went out for dinner and the movies - We've been with each other since I was 19 and he was 21 (I'm 22 soon and he's nearly 24), we could only just afford the cinema back then because we were in college and didn't have jobs (we paid for ourselves at the movies) - Now that we have slighly better income coming in, one of us pays for dinner and the other pays for the cinema OR we split the bill at dinner (I'd rather do this because I have a small appetite and don't finish my meal all the time and I feel bad that he pays for it) and then one of us pays for the tix at the cinema and the other pays for the sweets, popcorn, drinks, etc. Of course, if it's one of our birthdays or if one of us is feeling generous, one of us would pay for everything on the night, but it's rare enough. It depends really, we don't organise who pays what before we head out or anything; we just go with the flow.
It is so not the time for this debate #12. OP has a much greater problem at stake. So sorry you endured any of that nonsense OP. Good luck with the next guy. When you see the red flags come up in future dates, know that you have our support to get up and out of there ASAP.