By hollyglambert - Canada - Victoria
Today, I went on my first date. When we got to the restaurant he started hitting on the waitress. As soon as we sat down he took out his iPod and watched a video, then took out his phone and went on Tinder. Then about a minute before the bill came he dissapeared to the bathroom for 20 minutes. FML
hollyglambert tells us more :
OP here. Thanks everyone. Don't worry I won't be seeing him again. Also responding to that one guy, I did not expect him to pay the bill however I would have liked to go halves instead of pay for us both. Anyways thanks guys :)
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Well now ya never know. OP could be one of those girls who loves a man who treats her like shit and she's just telling us she found her perfect man... OR she should've hog tied and castrated him. Anxiously waiting to find out.

  xcllla_  |  26

He've watched video on his iPod before Tinder. It clearly showed his "interest" in OP.

By  tranced_  |  44

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  Willibobs  |  33

She never said he should, just that he left to go to the bathroom just before it came... She could have been paying half for all you know but he left so she had to pay it all.

  HeartYou101  |  31

My boyfriend and I had this conversation last night after we went out for dinner and the movies
- We've been with each other since I was 19 and he was 21 (I'm 22 soon and he's nearly 24), we could only just afford the cinema back then because we were in college and didn't have jobs (we paid for ourselves at the movies) -
Now that we have slighly better income coming in, one of us pays for dinner and the other pays for the cinema OR we split the bill at dinner (I'd rather do this because I have a small appetite and don't finish my meal all the time and I feel bad that he pays for it) and then one of us pays for the tix at the cinema and the other pays for the sweets, popcorn, drinks, etc.
Of course, if it's one of our birthdays or if one of us is feeling generous, one of us would pay for everything on the night, but it's rare enough.
It depends really, we don't organise who pays what before we head out or anything; we just go with the flow.

  mwali02  |  32

It is so not the time for this debate #12. OP has a much greater problem at stake.

So sorry you endured any of that nonsense OP. Good luck with the next guy. When you see the red flags come up in future dates, know that you have our support to get up and out of there ASAP.