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FML - The follow-up
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I didn't have an account when I posted this, but I'm the OP, and honestly, during our drunken state, I mustered up enough sobriety to prevent things from going too far. I as well, didn't want to ruin things between us by having sex because I respected her too much, and wanted more than that. Was it the right thing to do, or was I just being a dumbass? One commenter was correct in stating that she was confused as to what she really wanted. Either way, we've talked it out, and moved over that. It's better anyways maybe, considering we both work together and I have to go on months long deployments with this girl, haha. :]
By Medication / Saturday 12 October 2013 15:31 / United States
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  golden_warrior  |  24

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  golden_warrior  |  24

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  Medication  |  24

I didn't have an account when I posted this, but I'm the OP, and honestly, during our drunken state, I mustered up enough sobriety to prevent things from going too far. I as well, didn't want to ruin things between us by having sex because I respected her too much, and wanted more than that. Was it the right thing to do, or was I just being a dumbass? One commenter was correct in stating that she was confused as to what she really wanted. Either way, we've talked it out, and moved over that. It's better anyways maybe, considering we both work together and I have to go on months long deployments with this girl, haha. :]

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  jips5793  |  24

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  bamachick95  |  24

129, you know what your problem is? You obviously don't have enough respect for women. I am not a feminist by any means, but I thoroughly believe that relationships work best when both parties respect each other. The OP is going to have more successful relationships than you ever will, simply because he is respectful and a gentleman.

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  Zatnikatel  |  24

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  cmayer  |  24

It's so sad that people have to make it known that they aren't a feminist just so they won't get torn apart by people who think feminism means that women want power over men.

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  lifeisfabulous  |  24

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  NoFlippinWai  |  24

I, personally, have had outragous luck with the friendzone OP. My 3 longest relationships started with me in the FZ. My husband originally FZd me. He has will-power issues (it was a short wait). The other two were school friends. I waited for 5 years for one and 3 years for the other. It was worth it. It may suck now but if you stick by her she may change her mindm And if you di, you will have a longlasting meaningful relationship because she will trust you. Good Luck OP.

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  jmcr  |  24

Kudos for you for being mature enough to hold back and talk things out with her best of luck OP! I hope you both find someone that cares for you both :)

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  gabbi630  |  33

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  ElizabethNL93  |  38

5 - OP said that "one thing led to another", so I'm going to assume that they did something sexual. I think you've got it backwards - translation: I don't mind fucking you; I just don't love you.

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  gracehi  |  38

Well, that's what I've always meant when I've said stuff like that. And I wasn't really trying to be mean, or insinuate that OP is ugly or actually repulsive. I love my father and two brothers and also think they are all handsome men, however I am repulsed by them sexually. I've felt that way about a few guy friends I've had too. Then again, I've never fooled around with those people, so you guys make a good point. I don't know what the fuck this girl's deal is then. Seems like a really cruel thing to do to a friend. I guess she's either confused about how she feels and is too emotionally stupid to realize what she's doing to him, or she's just a bitch and really doesn't give a shit about him at all.

By  abhi95  |  40

She values your friendship a lot.. She's just scared that things will complicated if she gets involved with you.. But I know it sucks.. It's a lot of heartache.. Especially since you're gonna continue being friends

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  CallMeMcFeelii  |  40

Some people just don't want to be in a relationship. Maybe you guys can work out something to keep the foolery just between you two, but not be labeled as a girlfriend/boyfriend. Once you get the kinks worked out it's actually a pretty mutually beneficial relationship. The one thing I always liked about this type of situation is you guys won't be glued to one another fighting over stupid shit that happens when you actually are dating. Though, if you're attached to her in that type of way then I'd suggest not taking any of my advice. You'll just get hurt in the end. Hopefully one way it'll work out for you, OP. You just need to find the best way to go about it for the both of you.

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