Today, I went home after work with my best friend who I am also secretly in love with. We had a few drinks, were getting touchy, and one thing led to another. Before leaving, I got the courage to ask her out on a real date. Her only reply was, "I don't want to lose such a good friend." FML
Medication tells us more.
Medication 10
I didn't have an account when I posted this, but I'm the OP, and honestly, during our drunken state, I mustered up enough sobriety to prevent things from going too far. I as well, didn't want to ruin things between us by having sex because I respected her too much, and wanted more than that. Was it the right thing to do, or was I just being a dumbass? One commenter was correct in stating that she was confused as to what she really wanted. Either way, we've talked it out, and moved over that. It's better anyways maybe, considering we both work together and I have to go on months long deployments with this girl, haha. :]
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Last call, bad decisions and 3 a.m. texts you'll regret until noon. Cheers.
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Jst4kicks 16
welcome to the friendzone
kikihp731 16
So close.
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Comments (216)
astrazy 1
it's not she doesn't want to lose such a friend like you. it's because she doesn't crush on you at all. let it go.
Vnzlan_girl 10
Seriously if you don't want to be friendzoned talk to her. If you really care about her then you'll continue to be her friend. Don't feel like waiting forever? just move on. But if you do decide to keep being her friend don't spend all your time bitching about being frienzoned like most guys do. You know what you're getting into no one is forcing you to be her friend! the end. (:
love_rose18 9
Friendzone population... You.
rogerover 19
Friends with benefits?
SasquatchDeluxe 10
Exactly how "touchy" did you get?
BreakingBad4life 10
Her response could have been a lot worse, you could've lost her as a friend altogether. Be grateful, who knows she might rethink it
anthony99 14
Doesn't matter had sex
TheBrochure 22
Why is this thumbed down so much?! It is a sympathetic statement that depicts a feeling that most should be able to relate to, and doesn't make any assumptions in giving OP advice. In fact, it doesn't give OP advice, it just gives support.
Erery 16
She's your "best friend" but you guys already crossed the line when getting touchy. She doesn't like you, get over it. Not every girl you find attractive will fall in love with you. If you really value her as a friend, stop trying to be more than that.
blackonblight 33
That poor girl just got girlfriendzoned, sucks for her...