By Sady_Ct - 16/06/2016 11:01 - Australia - Geelong
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Hey guys, OP here... Wow! My first FML posted. To explain the situation, I was talking with my mum about how I'm unable to have kids due to physical issues with my body, my spine etc, all of which contribute to my financial and mental/emotional state. When some psycho storms up to me in the food court and screamed at me. What I actually do is help build the education funds for my nieces for when they grow up. Thanks for the support for everyone who understands... I get it on a weekly basis from everyone, including my partners family, and really gets under the skin. My father told me on his birthday at the start of the month that if I'm not pregnant by the end of the year he doesn't want to see me any more.. It's hard and it hurts, but i would never put a child of mine through what I went through. Thanks again for all your support! ^_^
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It's no one's business if you don't want to have children, and your father is a callous idiot for giving you that ultimatum. Besides, you're doing a noble act by placing funds for your nieces' futures. Keep doing what you're doing, OP. Don't let people try to shame you into something you'll regret.
Yep, nothing could be more selfish than not building more of yourself. On an unrelated note, would anybody be willing to help me replace the fuse in my irony detector?
I'm with you, OP. I would not be able to support a child in any way and have chosen to refrain from having them myself. You know yourself better than they do and if you feel it's the right choice then you're making the right decision for yourself. Your health is more important than someone else's awful opinion. :)