By draegoncode - 26/07/2010 04:34 - France

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Today, I told my girlfriend of 2 years that I was sexually abused as a kid. She was only the third person I've told. She reacted by breaking up with me because I "might do something" to her kids. FML
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FFML_314 11

Abuse is a horribly traumatic thing to endure at any point in your life. I'm sorry OP that you had to go through that. I hope the person that hurt you is rotting in jail or in hell. I have 0 tolerance for abusers. I hate people that make excuses for someone that's abusive. You shouldn't be able to walk this earth if you allow such evil to escape from your body! I have dealt with so many sex offenders and it makes me sick to think about the things these people would do. Your girlfriend is obviously being insensitive, but she may just be scared.

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oldwiseguy 0

This is the first time on here that someone actually did the right thing. Your GF that is. You're going to have a long life of therapy and struggle and I wish you all the best but why would anyone want to complicate their life with that baggage. Usually on here people break up for such trivial reasons but not in this case. I know it sounds cruel but somethings are very difficult to fix.

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Kawaiichan42 3

Baggage isn't the issue, her children and their safety are the issue. I don't think it's fair to discriminate against people who have been abused and say they will abuse your children, but I'm not going to fault OP's ex-girlfriend for doing what she thinks is best for her children.

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aliaysleighbasic 0

what? a long life of therapy? that's stupid. traumatic things don't always take a lifetime to get over. you are playing arm chair therapist. OP: ya it sucks, get help, but don't make it a life long cruch like this stupid person suggests. you're a survivor. not a victim anymore. geesh. people get over it.

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opalitepetals 0

I've been raped twice and sexually abused by a family friends for 5 years during my childhood. I will never forget it. It will always effect me. No amount of therapy or medication will ever change what happened. There is nothing anyone who has been molested or raped can do to forget any of it. Sometimes a lifetime is what it takes to accept what happened. Abuse will change who a person is forever. Your "get over it" attitude disgusts me.

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westsidewhite 0

what a bitch if you are abused that's means you know what it's like and wouldn't put your children through the same thing, am I right?

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rebbee 0

What an ignorent scrag you had for a g.f. OP you should be happy the dumb bitch is gone. I guarentee you will find someone more sensative and accepting of your misfortune. just don't settle for scum like her!

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kuntageous 0

wow. that's serious. I'm sorry about that. anyone who says he deserves, it is a complete dumbass.

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raithex 0

#49, the depressing thing is that you're actually right when it comes to your statistics and information on those people. OP, your girlfriend doesn't know what it was like for you to go through that. She might've known the statistics and immediately thought you'd be like that. It obviously emotionally scarred you and I'm pretty sure you wouldn't put your own children through that. This opinion is based simply on what I read out of this FML, so people, don't flood my comment with pointless statements going against me, such as "You don't know if he was hurt or not".

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moodybaby 0

Wow whats with the long assss comments, whos really reading those. And OP i feel sorry for you, thats so dramatic of her.

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FFML_314 11

Obviously the people that say they agree are reading them. I can see how readng anything longer then your comment would be tough though. I hope this was short enough for you, darling. :]

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Son_of_Helghan 0

I'm not sure, it may have been too long off topic: I typed "beeb" my phone corrected I as beebread. WTH!?

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sparky1079 2

dude, that's way harsh. contrast for having the honesty and courage to tell her about what happened in your past. I hope you find someone who doesn't react so fearfully.

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sportzpassion 0

I think that was the best thing for you...I kno it's gonna hurt but you'll be ok...she was a complete and total idiot yu deserve better

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Lessychan 4

There are plenty of people that do NOT turn in to the abusers that they had once encountered themselves. OP, your girlfriend made an emotional and fear based decision and neither fear nor emotions should be at the base of an important decision such as this one. FYL

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rawrineedcandy 0

I'm very sorry about why happen to you hat dumb bitch doesn't deserve you! You must have been so scared whoever did that to you must have been ****** up!!

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