Today, I texted the girl I'm going to homecoming with in a couple days to say hi. The conversation started OK, but then morphed into her saying that she doesn't feel anything between us, and wants to stop being friends after the dance. I have to buy her dinner and a ticket, out of my own wallet. FML
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Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Today, I got a text from a girl that I've had a crush on for a long time, asking me out to dinner. I agreed and went to the restaurant. Not long afterwards, I got text from her saying something had come up, so she couldn't make it. As I was walking back to my car, I saw her walk into the same restaurant with another guy. FML
Today, I was texted out of the blue by a girl I treated to dinner last year. Since then, we'd chatted and met in passing a few times, but she'd turned down or cancelled all my other date invitations. Sadly, she wasn't trying to meet up. She wanted $500 to benefit a male friend, who was down on his luck. FML
Today, I went out with a girl, I paid for the drinks, and thought everything went well, even though I didn’t make a move, I guess I wanted to take it slow. I texted later to invite her to a private beach next week, only for her to reply that she’s not gonna be available for the next few weeks because her boyfriend is coming to visit. FML
Today, this girl I've been talking to texted me, saying she was going to visit. Trying to be sweet, I bought her $50 worth of chocolate and a cute card. Turns out she meant to send that text to her ex. Seems like the only thing I'll get from this relationship is diabetes. FML
Today, the girl I've had a crush on for a year finally said she'd go out with me. On the way over to pick her up, she called me and said she couldn't go because she was going out to dinner with her ex-boyfriend to talk things over. She asked if she could use the reservations I had made. FML
Today, I was on a date with a girl I've had feelings for since I was 14 (I'm 22). I took her out to dinner, then to a movie that we both liked and had a few drinks afterwards. I thought it was going really well until I was driving her home and she asked to be dropped off at her boyfriend's house. FML
Today, I asked a girl I like to homecoming. I brought her to my house beforehand for dinner with my family. My brother asked her whether we were just friends or dating, she shouted, "Just friends!" and then starts flirting with him with me in the room. FML
Today, after seeing a girl for a few weeks on and off I sent her a text to see if she wanted to go out the next saturday. Predictive text changed "go" to "in". So..."Why don't we in out on saturday?" She stopped calling me. FML
Today, I took my girlfriend of a year out on a date, a nice fancy dinner and a movie. After dinner, I said that I was feeling sick and just wanted to go home. I didn't have the heart to tell her that dinner was so expensive that I didn't have money for the movie. FML
Today, I really liked this girl, and it seemed like she maybe liked me too. We texted a lot, she invited me to a party, and we played games together. I asked her out, worried about waiting too long, but got a really ambiguous answer. Now she’s playing the same games she used to ask me to play, just with a different guy. FML
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FreeTheRainbow 14
Or tell her you aren't feeling this dance with her and don't pay for her.
matt729 7
Sorry op, but really you don't have to... Find someone who respects you!
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Comments (178)
PANDORUM89 21
I would then inform her that you aren't interested in going to homecoming with her at all then. I'm sure if you looked there is a girl with no guy to go with that would LOVE to spend the night with you, and continue to be friends afterwards. honestly if I girl says that crap then its because she has decided to be "friends" with another guy. I mean who can at least remain friends?
Nekro13 8
Really, she jumped straight from she doesn't "feel anything between" you to saying she doesn't wanna be friends after the dance? I'm thinking there was a part in between where you were a jerk to her for saying that, and that's why she decided she didn't even want to be your friend anymore.
GolgiTendonOs 18
Something similar happened to me for senior prom. Dump her ass and go alone. You'll have more fun then being stuck with someone like her, I promise.
Yinoluu 4
No OP. You don't HAVE to do anything. Better to go alone than go with someone so disrespectful
PoliceExplorer87 13
Don't go with her then. You shouldn't have to put up with that.
masterminor 16
Or you could, ya know, not go with her.
yniguez09 14
So.... Don't?
delfino1604 24
if you still take her out and pay for her then you're a push over.
allplayedout 20
You absolutely do not have to do any of that, at all. So don't. If you did something to piss her off then apologize, but otherwise...why waste money on someone who doesn't even think your friendship is worth it? Cancel on her ass, going alone is better than having a shit date.
joe1105 11
my girlfriend broke up with me the day after homecoming OP