By brokenrelicslost - 08/01/2010 20:06 - United States
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it sucks depending on what he's in jail for. sometimes the law can be totally bullshit.
My fiancé did some stupid stuff last year and is currently serving time in a probation detention center AKA a minimum security state prison. All that doesn't change the fact that he is an AMAZING person. People make mistakes and sometimes those mistakes lead to prison time. If this is a one time occurrence, then there is nothing wrong with that person. In my fiancé's case, it was drugs. He got caught up in the wrong crowd, the wrong scene, and did some stupid things. Ever since we got together, he has completely changed. Of course, whenever the person repeatedly gets in trouble for the same thing an refuses to change, I'd advise to heighten the bar a little bit. But even then, love isn't rational. People fall in love all the time and sometimes, of you can broaden your seemingly narrow horizons a little bit, the person they fall in love with did some extremely bad things. Like murdering someone. It happens. Look at any of the prison talk websites and you'll quickly realize that.
dont judge him based on the fact that he's going to jail. people make mistakes, doesnt mean they are bad people
Just cuz he's going to jail doesn't make him less incredible. i know a good guy that went to jail cuz his woman cheated on him and left him and he couldn't afford child support.