By Miss_Blaine - 29/06/2016 20:05 - United States - Houston
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This is a bit ambiguous. Did you discover that he's bisexual and happily married to you, which wouldn't be a problem? Or that he's gay and cheating or not on you? That'd be horrible and I'm sorry if that's the case.
Or maybe she just found his stash of porn, which makes it possible that he is not currently (or maybe even never before in his life) involved with anyone else at all. He could just be bi-curious without ever having acted on it. OP did not give enough information from which to draw any reasonable conclusion.
Is he bi, in which case he's still attracted to women like you? If so, I don't see the problem. I'm probably a 1 on the Kinsey scale, so I'm straight, but I'm occasionally attracted to people of my gender. I think it'd be pretty hard to find someone who was a perfect 0 or 6 on the scale, and the popularity of threesomes seems to confirm this. Talk it over with him and see if he's still happy in his relationship with you. If he is, then just be happy that you have another thing in common haha.
Same thing happened to me. I turned it in to a he pays for everything and I don't mention it relationship. And my closet never look so glamorous. you can join which is fun or go shopping which last longer.