By Liferuinedforever - 14/05/2013 07:13 - Pakistan - Karachi
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That's horrible, OP, but I hope you love the kids all the same. It's not their fault. Their parents, however...
I wouldn't consider their biological dad a 'parent'. I'm adopted and as far as I'm concerned my parents are the people who chose me and raised me. Y'know, the ones who did the actual parenting. The people who supplied the sperm and egg to create me are, well, exactly that. Sperm and egg donors to a wanting and deserving family.
Thats rough.. Sorry, OP. But just because you're technically their uncle, doesn't mean that they don't see you as their father. You were there for them, and that's what counts.
Uhhhh and what about the cheating WHORE of a wife? The wife might have lied and told the brother "look don't worry man, us having sex isn't a big deal bcuz the kids are all my husbands, I' not gonna like have your babies, nothing too terrible to my husband". Then the brother might have shrugged and been like "well, I am banging my bro's wife but at LEAST the kids are his so I don't feel TOO bad." Then the wife could have been lying, and secretly having his kids on purpose. (*Selfish* women often do that, to get the man they feel is more genetically fit.) So I think the wife is a *littleee* more at fault than the brother here- its hard for a man to resist sexual temptation- but yeah don't get me wrong, the brother is a huge jerk too. But you saying "the brother is an asshat!" and not even mentioning how wrong the WIFE is, is 100% sexist and pretty offensive
I think whatever the wife told the brother - they are equally to blame - (going from what I know)... unless she had quadruplets, they probably had sex more than once over a long time.. if you like someone in a situation like that I can imagine it must be hard but I don't think the wife is more to blame than the brother.