By Dnamei - 22/03/2016 14:17 - Belgium

Today, I found out about my sister's insanely detailed plan to abduct my one-year-old son and raise him as her own on another continent. All my mom did was tell me not to worry because she can't afford to move that far away. FML
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OP here, made an account so I can answer some questions. My sister is 26, I'm 22. We got along pretty good, untill I met and married my husband and started a family. She lives with my parents, and is in a very bad relationship. When I met my husband, my sis tried to get me grounded (!) and tried to convince my parents not to let me see him. She also tried to blackmail me into not seeing him. She was against the marriage, and cried and screamed when she learned I was pregnant, saying I don't deserve what she doesn't have, claiming it won't be special when she has a baby because she wasn't the first to give my parents grandchildren (my parents don't think that way, they'll love every grandchild). My son is a very sweet and charming little guy, he sleeps through the night, is always happy, eats everything, rarely gets sick, crawls,... He's a very easy baby to care for, and everyone loves him and he loves everyone. The plan I found was in a notebook, while helping my parents clean out the attic. It included my husbands workschedule, and the days my son goes to daycare. Also what my son eats and his medical reccord. Her country of choice is Australia. A few days before this discovery, she asked me if she could take my boy to the zoo, alone. I refuses because he had a slight fever, and I'm very happy I did. My son has a kids-ID, my sister isn't allowed to be alone with him anymore, and I alerted the daycare to NEVER let her take him home. When I confronted her, she said it was just a joke, she was just 'messing with her little sister'. The notebook was hidden in a pile of schoolnotes, if we didn't clean the attic, we'd never know. Sorry for the long text, and sorry for my english. Ps: My dad was close to the airport when the bomb went of, but he didn't get hurt. My family and friends are scared and shaken, but safe. We mourn for the victims

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Wow. You're in an awful position. Get your son a passport though (KEEP IT SAFE)! They use biometric scanning for all passports and that way, if your sister attempts her plan, you can put a block on the passport and it'll automatically detect anything else your sons fingerprints are associated with (if her plan includes getting a fraudulent passport for him).

A broke ass criminal. Sounds like your sister would be a great mother in South Carolina...

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Your sister clearly has problems, do not let your kid out of your sight.

Or keep your kid as far away from your sister as possible. Might need to get your kid a restraining order so she can't legally come near him.

I would definitely get a restraining order against your sister. That's just creepy. And super scary.

A broke ass criminal. Sounds like your sister would be a great mother in South Carolina...

Get restraining order if you really think she's a threat to the child

Wow. You're in an awful position. Get your son a passport though (KEEP IT SAFE)! They use biometric scanning for all passports and that way, if your sister attempts her plan, you can put a block on the passport and it'll automatically detect anything else your sons fingerprints are associated with (if her plan includes getting a fraudulent passport for him).

Wow. I would hate to take your child, as you sound like you have "very particular set of skills, skills I have acquired over a very long career. Skills that make me a nightmare for people like the OPs sister"

And how does the tragedy in Belgium relate to this??

mariri9206 32

I so agree with this statement. Definitely get a passport for your kid. When my parents were separated and getting their divorce, my mom was worried my dad would take my sis and I out of the country but you can only have one passport so she made damn sure to get us passports before he did.

mariri9206 32

30, I'm on mobile and can't see the location but a comment further down states that OP'S location is Belgium and, so, that is how it relates to the tragedy in Belgium. Hope that helps/answers your question!

OP is from Belgium

If u truly think she would do this, u can contact state department and put an alert where if anyone applies for a passport in his name or attempts to take him abroad, u can b alerted.

Yes, do this but do it the way 4 said to with proper English...

9, perhaps you should learn how to use commas before criticizing the English of others.

A fair point my friend

How old is she?

We all know that mom's know everything about us.

This isn't helpful but her best option of raising your child would be to murder you. In my opinion. What your back. Sorry OP that does suck.

No, it's true and it is definitely a worry. Look at Samantha Fleming, Michelle Wilkins and Angelikque Sutton. Although the last two were fetal abductions where the baby was cut out of them, it is still a very real possibility and it shouldn't be taken lightly at all.

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If it were that innocent there would be no need for a detailed plan.

but I mean was there even for real a detailed plan

I don't know about you 18 but I like to just randomly make detailed plans in my free time. Just the other day I made a detailed plan about how to steal my cousins dog including times they are home, times they are gone, when the dog is outside alone, what spots can't be seen from the kitchen windows etc. So there may not have been need of it, but she probably kept it secret because most people find it weird, like my family does.

OP replied and said where she found the plan and some of the details in the plan. It wasn't a joke. Scroll down more and read what OP said for yourself.

yeah I saw that just now. that broad has issues. I thought it was a simple little "I'm gonna take him for myself" joke but jeeez

you can set something up where he isn't allowed to leave the country without your consent until they're 18