By SouthPaw - 14/01/2015 21:48 - United States - Baton Rouge
Add a comment - Reply to : #
Both of those actions are pretty bad. Sorry op I hate cheaters. Isn't one person enough?
#2 while I whole heartedly agree with you we can not assume that OP is blaimless for all we know he is a abusive neglectful jerk even if he doesn't realize he is(well I mean emotional or mental I don't think he could not realize physical) I am not saying cheating should ever be condoned but it is entirely possible he deserves it and lost her because of his own actions or lack there for of. of course it's equally plausible that she's just a worthless soul crushing slut who used him then cheated on him. my point being we do not know the situation or the whole story
40, I disagree. Even if Op is a huge jerk and treated her badly she still should have broken up with him before she started dating someone else. That's the one thing I don't understand about cheating, even if you're attracted to someone else, break up before you go there. I'd rather my boyfriend call me and dump me right before he makes out with someone else rather than him cheat on me.
@42 - Sounds like you're really into semantics. Why does it matter if he dumps you right before kissing somebody or if he waits until the morning after? Either way, his heart still belongs to somebody else and he's still leaving you for that person. Cheating or not, the result is the same. You're still losing the person you love/care about to somebody else, and it's not as though he engaged in a ton of deceit and distance to do so. Of course, this doesn't apply to long-term affairs, I'm simply referring to your terrible example.
For a lot of people, cheating would be their first guess.. You sound so very trusting, OP. I hope she hasn't completely ruined that quality in you forever.