Why would one be grateful that someone BROKE INTO ONE'S HOME (which is a felony), painted a room a color one does not like without permission (which could be either a felony or a misdemeanor), and ruined one's hardwood floors (which could be either a felony or a misdemeanor), and left the mess for him to clean up? It doesn't matter if anyone else likes the color, the OP doesn't like it and doesn't want it. She didn't ask, didn't take into account her taste, violated her privacy, ruined his things, and made work for her for when she returned from vacation.

A few things here. 1. I just painted my living room and dining room. Not by a professional, just me, and there are no paint stains on my floor or any of my trim for that matter. If you do it right, there is no paint where it's shouldn't be. 2. If you come in to do a job, especially a surprise one, you should probably clean up after yourself and not leave it for someone else to do. After all, you made the mess, and like your mother hopefully taught you, you clean up your own mess. 3. Regardless of whether or not the job was done well or if the colour is nice to other people, it is commonly considered rude, if not illegal to break into someones house (B&E) and paint (vandalism). 4. Just because someone else likes the colour, doesn't make it OK. They don't live there. You should get to choose what colours your walls are painted, unless you agree to let someone else pick and paint.

yeah, it sounds to me like the op is exaggerating and leaving details out. I highly doubt this friend just decided on a whim to do all this, the op probably bitched about or actually needed her walls painted, and I'd guess her friend was just trying to do something nice and surprise her. the op probably just doesnt like the color and is being and brat and exaggerating. not the best idea, but it's not like the friends intentions were bad. and if all her friends agree, I'd have to assume this is the most likely scenario. just tell her you appreciate what she was trying to do but explain what upsets you about it all, and ask if shell help you fix it. make a painting party out of it or something, don't let a misunderstanding ruin your friendship.

You'd be surprised what people would do. My family is big on the idea that whatever they think is best, is definitely best. Example: my grandparents came into my house one day while I was out of town (I had no clue they had a key and from what I understand, they lied to my dad saying I had given them permission to get one) and threw away all the things they thought were trash, including mementos, homework, and clothing. They hammered nails into my walls to hang up pictures that I didn't want there, and, while they didn't actually leave a mess, per se, it was a huge nuisance. My dad is similar. I was in the hospital for a month once, and when I came back my whole bedroom had been rearranged. I was pissed, but, it was his house, so technically I couldn't bitch too much, but it was very infuriating.

that's beside the point, this dumb ass broke into someone's house and decided it should be this color without consent

he has just a boss?! what is this and where can i get one?

The same place you get promblems.

If holesail, boat don't goes.

HAHAHAHAHAHA! this made me laugh so hard.