maybe you should stop sleeping around. problem solved.

Or she didn't know he had a girlfriend and slept with a boy she really liked. I don't think she would post on FML if she knew he had a girlfriend.

i agree wiht # 1, it all really does depend on wether or not you knew if he had another girl

Wow. People sure are quick to call a woman a ***** and a *****. Seriously, the onus is on the boyfriend to be faithful to his partner. He could have hidden the fact that he had a girlfriend, he could have pretended he had an open relationship, whatever. At the end of the day, it is HIS responsibility to not cheat; it is not up to the women of the world to police him. #76 "if your the bitch whos sleeping with a taken guy, your as much as fault and maybe even more because you should know better." No. Just no. The person who's cheating is always the most at fault. Period. They're the one committing the infidelity; they're the one who's ultimately responsible for hurting their partner. It is in no way justified because "tons of guys cheat." It is the responsibility of people in a monogamous relationship to remain faithful to one another; it is not the responsibility of the rest of the world.

#88 i agree very very much!

Props to no. 88!

88 is so right. The "other girl" has made no commitment to the girlfriend. It may be a shitty personality quality, but in the end, it is the boyfriend that is the asshole. Who knows what he could have told the other woman? Usually it's something like, "we're breaking up soon," or "she's so mean to me." They make you feel bad for them. You guys all act so high and mighty as if you've never ****** up in your life. Just chill out. You have no idea what the situation is.

I clicked both, cos it depends on whether you knew he had a girlfriend. If he kept it from you, FYL. If you knew and slept with him anyway, YDI.

Why did this girl treat YOU like the bad person? (I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt, here, and saying that you didn't know he had a girl) HE'S the one that's cheating.

if you didn't know he had a girflriend then that sucks, and it is FYL. but im guessing you did know because you said he's a boy you've been sleeping with. not a boy you're in a relationship. so..if that's the case, then good on the GF! if it were me, i wouldn't kicked you out butt-naked! those clothes of yours would be thrown out the window =) but also, that guy sounds like an asshole. so i'd also be kicking him out butt-naked too.