By Anonymous - 13/03/2021 02:01
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And you let her get away with that garbage behavior? Leave, bro. That’s a huge red flag. She’s literally waving it in your face.
I guess after you start dating someone you automatically stop finding anyone else attractive? I’m not saying that you do anything about it but the law of attraction doesn’t go away just because you pair up with someone else. The fact that she is “leading on” the other guy is the red flag to me, it seems that she enjoys the attention and reciprocates it. Crushes are not a big deal but you keep your mouth shut about it and you definitely don’t encourage the other person.
To me this sounds like your girlfriend is a good one, because she knows your worth so she doesn't leave you even though she has a crush on someone else and it's mutual. She must know her reasons why she stays with you despite these feelings. We can't chose who we fall in love with and (opposed to the unrealistic fairytales society tries to tell us) falling in love with someone else does not mean that we do not love our current partner anymore. Greetings from a person in a very happy polyamorous relationship.
And you're still with this girl because why?? Leave. For real. She's not able to have a normal relationship and it's not your job to fix that. You're only going to end up hurt and turn into a wreck yourself. And the fact you say it's not the first time. This isn't normal.