You are silly to base your decision on other peoples' kids. They could be shit parents raising shit kids. You could be a good parent and your kids could be a joy.

You don't owe her grandchildren and she should mind her own business. If she wants to spoil a small adorable creature, she can get a pet.

Well your mother can't make you have kids so I'm not sure what your problem is.

I don't have any myself but I always hear it's worth it. I belive once you find that special someone you'll make your best decision.

your mother is full of shit. go get yourself sterilized asap. its a relief

I was the same way. My wife wanted them and I didn't want to hurt her. Kids are difficult, expensive and wonderful. I loved my boys childhood.