Objectification

By Jo… - 07/04/2024 20:00 - South Africa - Paarl

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Today, I love my boyfriend very much don’t get me wrong, but we’re both still young and I don't want sex yet. I thought we were on the same page, I think we still are, but last night he attempted to make me horny. He said some dirty things and I'm not into that. I have big boobs, so guys hit on me a lot, but I thought he was different. FML
I agree, your life sucks 226
You deserved it 310

Same thing different taste

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It’s fine if you’re not ready for a sexual relationship. It seems that your boyfriend is looking for something that you’re not into, and putting pressure on you to do, and that’s not okay. I don’t understand all the votes for YDI, you’ve done nothing wrong! Tell your bf to chill out or kick rocks..

Agreed. He is pressuring you to have sex. Someone who so easily crosses the boundary you set doesn't respect you. Cut him loose. There are men out there who will respect your boundaries.

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Are we talking you’ve only been together a month or two or over a year? Cuz the amount of time you’ve been together is important here.

if you don't want your bf to be interested in you, then don't have a bf. you don't have to want to have sex but how can you expect your partner to not be attracted to you?

It’s fine if you’re not ready for a sexual relationship. It seems that your boyfriend is looking for something that you’re not into, and putting pressure on you to do, and that’s not okay. I don’t understand all the votes for YDI, you’ve done nothing wrong! Tell your bf to chill out or kick rocks..

Agreed. He is pressuring you to have sex. Someone who so easily crosses the boundary you set doesn't respect you. Cut him loose. There are men out there who will respect your boundaries.

butterfly27 1

guys are always thinking and wanting sex… but you have the right to put some boundaries. take what he did as a compliment but don’t give in unless you are totally ready ok? 🙂 be safe!