Your wife seriously needs to be more understanding! Life happens. Sorry OP

First of all, let’s all agree that 69 is out of the question.....

Your pfp is a girl how are you gonna get an erection lol

I know it's not virile to have trouble getting an erection, but you don't have to classify yourself as a woman.

Let’s see, staying Ali e with no erection and farts, or risking death. It’s an easy choice.

Talk to your doctor, there might be alternatives to consider

Tell your doctor about this there are often other alternatives. But please don’t just stop taking them or you’ll be even worse off in the end.

I wonder if I have that same medication, I've been farting it up lately

Buy a buttplug.