Today, I found out my friends were dating, which, OK, might seem normal. Unfortunately, I had this really big crush on this girl. I really admired her because she was a pianist and I was a violinist, and we often jammed together. I was gonna tell her, but before I could she told me she has a boyfriend now. FML
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Packed lecture halls, a sketchy roommate and frat parties: welcome to college, the real thing.
Today, as I recently starting having a huge crush on this one guy, my friend told me she told him about the crush, and that he reacted positively. I made a move, only to find out he has a partner. I've tried distancing myself to get over him but he befriended all my friends and is now in our group chat, and the crush has only intensified. FML
Today, I was gonna tell my crush that I love her, but I found out that she has a fiancé. She kept it secret so I would carry on helping her in her studies, like a fool. She was acting like she liked me, but she never did. Now it seems very obvious. FML
Today, I found out that my crush is a lesbian. Everyone knew about it. Everyone also knew that I liked her. No one told me. FML
Today, someone I've been crushing on admitted they're attracted to me too. We hooked up, but now she says we can't date because she is already dating someone. I feel terrible for them, and now know she isn't the kind of person I thought she was. FML
Today, I found out that my best friend and the guy I had a crush on for 2 years are getting married. The worst part is that they've been dating for 2 years in secret, and just came out about it now. I've been telling her for 2 years how much I like him, and she's encouraged me the whole time. FML
Today, I found out that my current girlfriend has dated all of my friends at one time or another. FML
Today, I found out that one of my best friends likes the girl that I like. What's funny is that my best friend is also a girl, and has a better chance with her than I do. FML
Today, a really cute girl from my class invited me out for a few drinks. I’ve had a crush on her all year and thought this was my chance. We went out but it turns out she has a boyfriend of 5 and a half years she plans to marry. I saw her as a potential girlfriend and I guess she saw me as something else. FML
Today, a "friend" of mine told everyone that I had a crush on a girl I used to be really good friends with 2 years ago. I never liked her that way, and had said that only to hide the fact that I'm gay and don't feel safe with boys. Her current boyfriend is seriously annoyed with me. FML
Today, the girl I had a crush on for the past few months called me and wanted to tell me something. Excited, I agreed and we went out to dinner. She wanted to tell me she had been secretly seeing 'someone' for the past six months. FML
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RichardPencil 32
You jammed "often" and you never had the balls to ask her out for coffee or dinner or drinks? If you had a chance with her, how do you think she felt about you never making a move?
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
You snooze you lose. If she was as talented as you say, you should have snapped her up. Learn from your mistake for next time.
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RichardPencil 32
You jammed "often" and you never had the balls to ask her out for coffee or dinner or drinks? If you had a chance with her, how do you think she felt about you never making a move?
RichardPencil 32
We still don't live in a society where women are allowed to do that. Things are improving, but it's far from an equitable state.
Earl_KarmasBitch 36
You snooze you lose. If she was as talented as you say, you should have snapped her up. Learn from your mistake for next time.
Chazzster 32
You probably wasted those earlier chances. One of the things we learn from life is to not waste an opportunity when it presents itself… On the other hand, my impression is that you and she are young. Young romance usually ends and then people move on to the next person that strikes their fancy. It’s possible your heart throb will be available again one of these days - or not… Learn from this to take appropriate chances at putting yourself forward with a person who interests you and you feel you have something in common with. But be aware that: … (a) Not every pairing works out even when we think they would be perfect… (b) There is more than one potential relationship match out there. There is no “one perfect person” except in your mind. There are multiple potential partners that you can love and who love you. Eventually you will find one that is good for you and vice versa.
ODBeefalo 10
sounds like a new relationship... so you could just tell her how you feel. either they feel the same and you did minimal damage if they break up, or she doesn't and you can move on...