Frittering it away

By Anonymous - 13/10/2021 13:59

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Today, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years, and I just found out he has an OnlyFans, on which I found he messages girls, and talks to one specifically nearly regularly all year. I have no idea how much he's spent on there, but a lot: tips, requests, di** ratings. This is only a small part, and we just got a house. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 382
You deserved it 182

Same thing different taste

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Good News / Bad News / Unknown The bad news: Boyfriend is spending money on OnlyFans. Good News: Whoever he’s paying is out of his league for a non-paying relationship. So unless he spends a lot more money he’s never going to actually meet them. I think that the great majority of sex workers on sites like OnlyFans simply supply an on line experience (videos, photos, occasional chat messages) and are not prostitutes nor do they intend to personally meet their on line customers. The Unknown: Is this part of a pattern of simply enjoying **** and spending some money on that or is this part of a pattern that could lead to infidelity? Men and women can enjoy images or videos of a sexual nature (****) and keep that at the level of fantasy without it affecting their real world love life. Ideally both partners can enjoy watching **** together as part of their sex lives. You need to have an honest discussion with your boyfriend. You need to keep it low key, but you may as well tell him you found out about his onlyfans account and have concerns about where things are heading. Once you and he have talked this out (talking, not screaming or crying) then you will be better informed about where this relationship is headed.

Someone has to get out of that house. Will it be you or him? Maybe you can flip a coin to decide, or maybe use a recent dick rating? (Yeah, I wrote it without asterisks.)

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Someone has to get out of that house. Will it be you or him? Maybe you can flip a coin to decide, or maybe use a recent dick rating? (Yeah, I wrote it without asterisks.)

Probably not a big deal. Average monthly only fans is like $6.

Good News / Bad News / Unknown The bad news: Boyfriend is spending money on OnlyFans. Good News: Whoever he’s paying is out of his league for a non-paying relationship. So unless he spends a lot more money he’s never going to actually meet them. I think that the great majority of sex workers on sites like OnlyFans simply supply an on line experience (videos, photos, occasional chat messages) and are not prostitutes nor do they intend to personally meet their on line customers. The Unknown: Is this part of a pattern of simply enjoying **** and spending some money on that or is this part of a pattern that could lead to infidelity? Men and women can enjoy images or videos of a sexual nature (****) and keep that at the level of fantasy without it affecting their real world love life. Ideally both partners can enjoy watching **** together as part of their sex lives. You need to have an honest discussion with your boyfriend. You need to keep it low key, but you may as well tell him you found out about his onlyfans account and have concerns about where things are heading. Once you and he have talked this out (talking, not screaming or crying) then you will be better informed about where this relationship is headed.

I don't know how much OF subs cost, but... is he asking you for money? Not pulling weight will bills, the mortgage, etc? The impression I get is OF is this generation's 'cam girls'. Unless you're concerned that this is an emotional affair and not just his way of getting into ****, I'm not sure there's a concern. But that's something you need to use your big girl words for and talk to him about.

humantwinkie 5

My dude I feel like you’re concerned about literally nothing you’re worried about his only fans subscriptions that’s ridiculous focus more on your actual relationship if that’s something you’re concerned about lol

diraven 15

Show him how to use Google, There is so much free **** on the internet, why waste the money?