Red flag

By Anonymous - 01/02/2022 11:01

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Today, I found out that my boyfriend of 3 years has spent a total of 2k on OnlyFans throughout our entire relationship. I thought everything was going good. I guess that's the red flag for me. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 145
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On the one hand, I really don't understand why anyone would pay for porn nowadays. On the other hand, at the end of the day, assuming he didn't personally get in touch (pun intended) with the models, it's still just amateur porn. Also, 2 grands over 3 years amounts to roughly 60 bucks a month. It's not negligible, but not such a huge amount either (basically like buying 1 new video game every month).

should've just given you the 2K to do some "OF content" between the 2 of you... especially since porn is free... this can "spice up" a relationship and the money pretty much stays between the 2 of you

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should've just given you the 2K to do some "OF content" between the 2 of you... especially since porn is free... this can "spice up" a relationship and the money pretty much stays between the 2 of you

On the one hand, I really don't understand why anyone would pay for porn nowadays. On the other hand, at the end of the day, assuming he didn't personally get in touch (pun intended) with the models, it's still just amateur porn. Also, 2 grands over 3 years amounts to roughly 60 bucks a month. It's not negligible, but not such a huge amount either (basically like buying 1 new video game every month).

It simply seems you wanted that money. How dare he do something with the money he worked for. Whatever he earns is your money right. It was pointed out that the money spent over 3 years comes out to very little per month. Clearly looking at them or porn is cheating. Just be single for the rest of your life, it’s easier that way

Yeah, you don't need to be with an asshole who wastes money. If you have to show him the free porn sites, he's too dumb to procreate with.

it's just porn, and it's his money. so what?

I don't see the problem, unless it was on your sisters onlyfans.

2K over 3 years isn't that much money. He's supporting independent sex workers. And porn really shouldn't be a big deal in a relationship. I can udnerstand in our society rooted in binary het monogamy that you would be upset about this. Did you set boundaries about porn at the start of the relationship?

Have you tried putting out more?

Find out what kind of kinky shit he's into on there so you can do it with him.

I don't understand this female "logic" porn is porn right? What's the difference between that and pornhub?