I told someone once that eventually people figure out what it takes to motivate you. Then you are going to get a steady diet of that. It sounds like your wife figured that out in your case. You have two choices that I can see - Either stop anger cleaning and take a walk instead or start sharing the chores without having to have someone pick a fight. Either or both would be a lot healthier for your relationship… Try communicating about this with your wife - but not accusingly or angry. See if you cannot find a better way to avoid this… Of course no relationship is without occasional arguments or disagreements - That’s just being human. But how you handle these is very important.

if she seeks drama like that, time for a serious convo. if that is why she argues she is immature and needs serious work on herself

Hey, fuckface! You'd better treat that lady right or you won't be able to detail my car. I'll bet you're too worthless to get my tires' sidewalls. Aren't you, dickwad?

I bet your house is positively sparkling after that realization.

Or, maybe she is just pissed because you are doing her job of cleaning the house. Now tell her to go make you a sammich!