By Anonymous - 05/09/2020 02:02
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Its so sad that so many women don't make sure their men are sexually satisfied. I'm truly sorry for you.
It is both people in a relationship’s job to make sure they are in a relationship with someone who matches up with their sexual needs. No one is obligated to please someone else if they have no interest in it. It is not their responsibility. It sucks for the OP that they are in this relationship where their needs aren’t met and their partner is seemingly not willing to be sensitive of it. Maybe they used to be more compatible, we don’t know.
I disagree. It's my obligation to make sure my husband's needs are met, and it's his oigation to make sure mine are met. That's what makes a good relationship. women who say (and yes I've heard this more than once) "I'm married, I shouldn't have to have sex anymore," can't then bitch that their husband has an affair. Because she drove him to it. Sex us a biological need for a man, and for some women. Too often women "put out" while dating to keep a man, then when they get married adopt the "I dont have to anymore" attitude. Then the dude is left going, "Wtf happened to our sex life."
Ever heard of the term rape? It's not gonna work out the way you think it is buddy.
this was, while poorly explained for others, somewhat accurate. in order for OP to please his wife in bed,she would have to agree to such things. otherwise it could be considered rape,or something else (not sure if it is a different term when married). But without consent from the wife, it would be essential rape, and thus not work out so well. but it may be a good idea to talk it over with her and see where things stand.
Sex isn’t a gift.. which might be why she said grow up... sex should be an active part of a marriage that happens on it own because those two people want to feel a connection. If that is lost then maybe fix the connection... is there something that has happened to make her lose respect for you? Is she super exhausted taking care of the house, children and working a lot? I know women tend to get a bad rep for not wanting to please their husbands but sometimes it deeper than that... it could be something else there which she isn’t getting fulfilled so not interested in being connected to you in that way anymore