Today, my boyfriend of 3 years felt comfortable enough with me to disclose that he had previously spent 4 years in a mental institute because he tried to kill his mother. He also told me we will be together forever. I'm scared. FML
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Dead leaves, the first cold of the season and an umbrella flipped inside out: fall, the season of grace.
Today, my boyfriend told me he's been having doubts, but he still wants to stay with me. I asked him why he had been so nervous about us and he replied, "I don't know, just thinking about a future with you makes me feel nauseous". We've been together over 2 years now. FML
Today, in the same sentence, my boyfriend told me that he wanted to "spend the rest of his life with me," and "I want to break up with you because I can't face your family." FML
Today, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months when he told me I’m the only person he’s ever been with who’s made him feel safe and able to be vulnerable and open up for the first time… and made him realise he has trauma to work through. He then dumped me on the spot so he could work through it. FML
Today, I went through my boyfriend’s phone. He'd told his brothers, mom, and mutual friends that I was at a psych ward, after I went crazy. We have been back together for four months now after that situation, so no wonder I got the vibe they hate me. Why lie about something so stupid? FML
Today, my boyfriend told me he wants to marry me and be the father of my children. Five minutes later, he told me he wants to experience death. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years accidentally admitted to me that he settled for me because he doesn't think he can do any better. FML
Today, I admitted to my boyfriend of three years that I have been suffering from depression for a while now. He took it as a good time to dump me. FML
Today, my boyfriend of four years, who has never been anything but loving and supportive, told me after I made a joke that there has been “a change” in how he deals with people, that he has been “purging,” and that I could be next because he “has needs too.” FML
Today, I told my boyfriend I’m pregnant. He broke down crying because his mother is going to be so mad at him. He’s in his 30’s and we've lived together for over 4 years, it’s not like it was a drunken mistake, it just happened naturally. FML
Today, my boyfriend of two years told his friend that he decided a long time ago that he would never be faithful to a woman. I was sitting next to him. FML
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taternuts 0
Don't worry, if he wants to be together forever he's probably not planning on killing you any time soon
j4gerb0mblitz 6
I cant wait to see his reaction when you guys break up.
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Comments (278)
SystemofaBlink41 27
Where in the world have you heard that?
akle4163 8
sounds like my ex. he went psycho so I left him...he now wants my life and hangs out wherever he sees me. good luck to you...be careful and don't listen to the people that tell you not to be cautious just because he 'changed' or 'can change'
APimpNamedSlickb_fml_fml 0
Run, baby, run. Don't ever look back. I'll tear you apart if you give me the chance.
Sarah24760 0
doesn't sound real... at all
careless92 5
Op should get a running start.. Now.
kit001 0
I can understand u being scared hearing something like that, bit you prolly should ask WHY he tried to kill her. He was treated and he has acted normal for three years. Sounds to me like he really cares about you or he would have just kept on keeping his mouth shut. I think you shoulda taken the conversation further.
Thizzkidsgotgame 7
Ok OP, on a serious note, a little research never hurt! But then again.. Curiousity did kill the cat... =
bubba9000 3
It turned out he was into heavy drugs when he was 17 and tried to stab her over something trivial like asking him to set the table; he wouldn't give me specifics. He's also been on medication for his "anger issues" which he has kept a secret from me and has decided he doesn't need them anymore and has gone off them. Believe me he needs them. To anyone who thinks I'm a bitch.. How would you feel if after THREE years your partner told you this? How can I trust him when he has been lying about his past for this long? What else is he lying about?
Jamesmc430 6
Trying to kill your mother is normal
iamabanana13 7
Eesh i feel for you, noone deserves to have that sprung on them..especially as he was put inside for attempted murder. hope whatever you decide will mean you are safe!!!