AITA?

By Anonymous - 17/11/2022 12:00

Spicy
Today, I caught my girlfriend of a year texting her ex, asking if she was enough for him sexually. He responded in detail about all their sexual activities, but she says I’m overreacting and shouldn’t keep throwing it in her face. Am I wrong? FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 683
You deserved it 205

Same thing different taste

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This reeks of “go directly to couples therapy, do not pass GO, do not collect $200,” which sucks because that $200 would be useful for paying for the therapy.

Get rid of her. If she hasn't cheated already she is about to. I mean cheated physically. She has already cheated emotionally. She has YOU to talk about sex. Not her ex. Find someone who needs only your reassurance.

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This reeks of “go directly to couples therapy, do not pass GO, do not collect $200,” which sucks because that $200 would be useful for paying for the therapy.

anonnymouse1812 7

do not go to couples therapy. coz she will do it again and then you’re 200 bucks out. take that 200 to the strip club after dumping her and then send her pics while youre there

Get rid of her. If she hasn't cheated already she is about to. I mean cheated physically. She has already cheated emotionally. She has YOU to talk about sex. Not her ex. Find someone who needs only your reassurance.

she already cheated physically too... it clearly states that the ex texted in detail all of their sexual activities

Maybe. You should keep "throwing it" in her face, but maybe mix things up and sometimes "throw it" on her ******* or up her butt or on her belly. Don't be boring!

This one depends a lot on context. If girlfriend was feeling inadequate because of yours and her sexual life; especially if you had made her feel inadequate - Then she might have been trying to figure out if the problem was her, you, or the relationship. It would have been much better for her to speak directly with you about whatever the issue was, it’s not necessarily the beginning of the end for the relationship… If you want to just end the relationship just keep doing what you are doing. If you want to save the relationship, try to discuss your issues calmly and figure out if you or she or both of you need to make some changes. Address the issues about you and her - not about the ex.

If your girlfriend was asking her ex, this means that she isn't enough for you sexually?

You're only wrong if you continue to stay with this two-timer.