I'm sorry to hear that. Please be patient with her, hopefully she'll come around soon!

I'm sure she's just nervous and clearly has very little idea about sex... sounds like her parents told her it was a scary bad thing and left it at that.

How are y'all getting the idea that Op's a girl when the sign states neither of which?

Was it that small lol

And that it why you don't wait till marriage to have sex

YOU TOTALLY DESEVE IT this is what people get for waiting until they're married.

Don't push her into anything try to take things slowly

Wait because she saw your willis and doodleberries?

And that is why I think you shouldn't wait until marriage to have sex.... Sex is something natural and you won't feel any different after you had it, really... It's not like you're some beautiful angel who turns into an ugly street rat after losing your virginity =P If you decide to stay a virgin until marriage, well, your choice, but you should always be prepared something like this could happen. Especially women need to explore their bodies alot, alone or with their significant other, before sex will truly feel good for them and if you treat your privates like some holy place until you're 30 your first time will usually suck, alot. And a man who has no idea what to do either on top of it? Even worse. Another thing is, there's never a garantuee you two will have matching interests in bed. Maybe one starts exploring their true desires and the other one is completely unhappy with those? You can love some one the much you want, but if your sex sucks your relationship probably will as well sooner or later. So, I'm sorry to say this, op, but in my eyes you deserve this :/

:( Hope that resolved itself eventually

5 dollar foot long! ha. no wonder why she was so scared

Am I the only one who notices that the OP is a woman?