Today, my two closest friends declared that they hated each other. They're my bridesmaids. The wedding is in three weeks. FML
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A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Today, I overheard my mom talking on the phone with my sister about how much they hate my fiancé. My wedding is in two weeks and my family has been pretending to like my future husband for three years. FML
Today, I was buried in texts from two of my bridesmaids about how much they hated their dresses. Dresses they helped pick. I can either be a bridezilla, put up with this for 4 more months, or ruin two friendships. FML
Today, I found my two best friends making out with each other. Not a big deal, right? Wrong. Today was my wedding day. One of the friends was my maid of honor, the other was my groom. FML
Today, my best friend of over 16 years is getting married. I was supposed to be her Maid of Honor. Instead I was uninvited a few weeks ago. FML
Today, my bestie had me kicked out of her wedding the day of. All because I altered my bridesmaid's dress without telling her. She knows I hate fabric against my legs. FML
Today, my wedding is scheduled for next week. Today is also the day my whole family had an epic falling out, resulting in my mother disowning my brother. Apart from having them taking turns sobbing at me through the phone, they're also not coming to the wedding. I paid the hotel rooms in advance. FML
Today, I was told by one of my bridesmaids that she can't afford the travel costs to get to my wedding, after telling me that she didn't need me to organize alternate free travel for her. I'm getting married in less than two weeks. FML
Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't going to invite me to her wedding, because I'm too shy and not enough fun, and she doesn't want her 200 or so guests to feel uncomfortable. I was the one who set the happy couple up. FML
Today, I found my sister's wedding book. Inside it was a list of potential grooms; she'd written down all of my ex-boyfriends. And my fiancé. We're getting married in three weeks. FML
Today, I found out that my friends finally scheduled their wedding. The entire friend group of the groom, which I am part of, is in the wedding. Except me. If I go I’ll have to watch my boyfriend, who is a groomsman, walk down the aisle with one of the bride’s friends on his arm while I sit alone. FML
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Top comments
Welshite 40
Tell them to suck it up. The wedding is about you, not them. They can ignore their differences for one day.
baxeh 29
If they care about you they'll suck it up and be there for you, leaving the drama out. Best of luck!
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Comments (91)
jem970 19
Its your wedding OP. Tell 'em to suck it up and shut up.
frizz101 22
Tell them to suck it up, or they are both out of the wedding.
Thunderstruck14 30
I hope they behave themselves. Just because they hate each other doesn't mean they can't each be a good friend to you on your special day.
Scooter42 15
My daughters declare that to each other on a daily basis. In general when people declare they hate each other it's very short lived, especially women as they let emotions her the better of them. Let them get over it, three weeks is a long time to mend a friendship. Men would be faster so you could day we are more fickle, two beers tops.
Alicestraza 33
Ah of course, all women are crazy and emotional and all men need is beer. Sexism is fun.
MyS3lf 24
Seems this month is full of wedding woes. My mother in law is getting remarried on the 22nd, and she apparently feels it's totally appropriate to have invited my Husbands ex-wife, who divorced him after cheating on him. She can't figure out why we're not ok with that.
notsofriendly 17
IMO, if they can't patch things up, de-bridesmaid both. I wouldn't want to risk their drama ruining me and my husband's day.
etishuman22 32
I mean, I can see your point but everyone here saying that are forgetting the dresses. If she had them fitted and order special dresses, that's at least a four month prior thing. And then there's the issues of how much they had to pay for that dress. If she could replace them, there's no telling if her replacement bridesmaids could fit into those dresses. Unless OP is cool having no one walk with the groomsmen, it's going to be one awkward wedding. It's easier to just tell her friends to put up or shut up.
LegolasPrincess 10
Tell them to suck it up till after the wedding, it's not their day, it's yours.
azisles02 17
If they can't put it aside for YOUR wedding, then they don't deserve your friendship, or to be at your wedding. As long as its not for a really good reason, like one slept with the other's boyfriend/husband.
secretlady99 6
that sucks op. hopefully they can be civil on your wedding day
Gingerette 8
Solution: male bridesmaids.