Today, my two closest friends declared that they hated each other. They're my bridesmaids. The wedding is in three weeks. FML
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Today, I overheard my mom talking on the phone with my sister about how much they hate my fiancé. My wedding is in two weeks and my family has been pretending to like my future husband for three years. FML
Today, I was buried in texts from two of my bridesmaids about how much they hated their dresses. Dresses they helped pick. I can either be a bridezilla, put up with this for 4 more months, or ruin two friendships. FML
Today, I found my two best friends making out with each other. Not a big deal, right? Wrong. Today was my wedding day. One of the friends was my maid of honor, the other was my groom. FML
Today, my best friend of over 16 years is getting married. I was supposed to be her Maid of Honor. Instead I was uninvited a few weeks ago. FML
Today, my bestie had me kicked out of her wedding the day of. All because I altered my bridesmaid's dress without telling her. She knows I hate fabric against my legs. FML
Today, my wedding is scheduled for next week. Today is also the day my whole family had an epic falling out, resulting in my mother disowning my brother. Apart from having them taking turns sobbing at me through the phone, they're also not coming to the wedding. I paid the hotel rooms in advance. FML
Today, I was told by one of my bridesmaids that she can't afford the travel costs to get to my wedding, after telling me that she didn't need me to organize alternate free travel for her. I'm getting married in less than two weeks. FML
Today, one of my closest friends informed me that she wasn't going to invite me to her wedding, because I'm too shy and not enough fun, and she doesn't want her 200 or so guests to feel uncomfortable. I was the one who set the happy couple up. FML
Today, I found my sister's wedding book. Inside it was a list of potential grooms; she'd written down all of my ex-boyfriends. And my fiancé. We're getting married in three weeks. FML
Today, I found out that my friends finally scheduled their wedding. The entire friend group of the groom, which I am part of, is in the wedding. Except me. If I go I’ll have to watch my boyfriend, who is a groomsman, walk down the aisle with one of the bride’s friends on his arm while I sit alone. FML
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Top comments
Welshite 40
Tell them to suck it up. The wedding is about you, not them. They can ignore their differences for one day.
baxeh 29
If they care about you they'll suck it up and be there for you, leaving the drama out. Best of luck!
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Comments (91)
worldclassrager 41
It's one day...big deal...just don't have them follow one another or if it's that bad I hope you can find a replacement...
fooltemptress 36
If they're truly your friends, they'll put their differences aside for your big day. If at all possible, try to find out what's going on between them to see if you can sort it out before your wedding. Good luck!
Fedezzer 20
Three weeks?!! Oh nooooo!! On a serious note: am I the only one who doesn't see an irreparable problem here?
Ari1337 15
cuz three weeks isn't a lot of time to replace bridesmaids and buy new dresses and all that other stuff. the only other solution to making the two girls suck it up is to not have bridesmaids at all.
MortenM 17
YDI. If they're your closest friends you must have noticed before
Bluelephant88 5
You need to lay down the law with them and tell them that either they can act like adults for one day for your sake or they can't be in the wedding.
EmmaMK 35
They should be honoured you choose them. I'm sure they will be fine together on the day to celebrate your special day. Congrats and good luck.
sannah_fml 8
Too bad. They're adults, not middle schoolers. They can suck it up for a day.
KaylaTackett 18
Well they need to suck it up for you, it's your day and they need to remember that.
erin37 27
Tell them it's your day. They are just going to have to put up with if and move on
Chellec2013 28
Well they better suck it up and get over it for your wedding. It's your day, even if they're not fond of eachother. congrats on your wedding also OP!