Today, my friend told me men can't be trusted. I told her that wasn't true; I have my husband's password to his email but I never check it because I trust him. She bet me he was doing something bad, and to prove her wrong I looked. Turns out he has been cheating on me for 8 months. FML
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Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Today, my friend didn't believe me when I was bragging about how good of a boyfriend my partner finally was. She told me to prove it because he had cheated before. I opened his Instagram and the first DM opened was him cheating. FML
Today, my husband admitted that he's been spying on me for the last 5 years to see if I was cheating, out of paranoia brought on by his own cheating for all 5 of those years. FML
Today, my husband confessed to cheating but then tried to turn it around on me. Apparently, because I wasn’t regularly checking his phone, it must mean I don’t really care about him or I’d have caught him months ago. Sorry for trusting my husband I suppose, geez. FML
Today, I came to found out that every time my husband told me that he was on "a work trip", he was actually cheating on me with some other bitch. FML
Today, I found out just how bad my boyfriend's trust issues are, thanks to him being cheated on in the past. He actually had the nerve to ask his 6 year-old son if I had any other men come over while he was at work. FML
Today, a misunderstanding led to me falsely accusing my husband of cheating. We cleared it up and he forgave me and everything, but my parents are still convinced that he cheated, and won't believe me when I say he wasn't. FML
Today, I finally cracked the password on my husband's email account. I don't know which is worse: finding out your husband is cheating on you with several people, or finding his password includes his ex-girlfriend's name. FML
Today, I found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me. I also found out that my best friend knew about it all along. When I confronted him, he tried to justify the betrayal by saying that she paid him to keep quiet. FML
Today, my husband and I got into a fight about his pervert friend who regularly shows blatant disrespect for our marriage, including sending me inappropriate texts. Apparently this friend should have my full trust, and apparently I am the one with the issue for not excusing his bad behavior. FML
Today, I found out my boyfriend of two years is cheating on me. A friend had brought this to my attention. She was under the impression that we broke up because she’d seen stories of him and another woman. I found out he changed his story settings to hide the specific posts with that other woman from me only. FML
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40andsad 0
I wonder if she knew something all along and didn't have the heart to tell you, and used this as a way of letting you know? I'm glad you found out now, and wish hope things work out for you.
cavalos94 0
it's douchebags like him that give us nice dudes bad names>(
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lmaoatyourlife 0
FYL! That sucks, i don't think you should of checked JUST to prove your friend wrong though, because if he hadn't of been cheating on you then that would of been really unfair on him just because you wanted to be right. However in this case he was an idiot, not your fault. 'Don't get mad, Get everything!'
omgsome1helpme 0
owch trhat really sucks !!! But just think, now you can kick him out and then get a house all to yourself !! :D Not sure if that makes you feel any better but oh well !! :)
shadowkiss13 0
your sooo right except about 99.9% of men can NOT be trusted at least thats wat i figured out after about the 4th heartbreak. Anyhoo to the OP dnt worry there is still the .1% percent to look foward to!
allen20 0
that is sad..i dont know how girls trust me lol
GravityOfLove 3
Are you sure he's not cheating on you w/ your "friend"?
containsnosoy 0
If you say that 99.9% of men cannot be trusted, you should be also applying that to women. If that doesn't sit with you, and it shouldn't, maybe you should consider that it is not the gender that determines the amount of trust someone should put into them but it's the ACTUAL person and their actions. I mean, if you're going to say that 99.9% of men aren't trustworthy, than can you really expect that whoever you are with is in that .1%? Idk, I just doubt that many people wake up and think about intentionally burning the trust between them and someone they care about.. People cheat, but it's their own decision, and is not determined by whether they are a male or female..
Everyones_stupid 0
Wow, you must have been the top student in math calls.....99.9% - 4% = .1% The people who use this kind of ideology are either 1) terrible at picking out guys because they keep getting cheated on, or 2) such a bad partner they keep driving their significant other away.
kint_fml 0
Hello, I am the one who submitted this. Basically we have been married for over a year, we've known each other for 3. A long, long time ago, he asked for my myspace and email password, but I refused and told him I didn't want to be one of those couples that has to keep tabs on each other. I wanted us to trust each other. Some time later, he was out and called me to ask me to check his e-mail because he really needed something imporant and he needed it then and there, and he had no way to access his e-mail. I checked and never, ever logged back on from then on, because I seriously (thought) had no reason to. The other night my friend told me that men can't be trusted, and I told her I knew his password but never checked it cause I trusted him. She then started nagging me, saying to just check, cause "If he's not doing anything wrong then obviously we won't find anything!". So, I checked... and I was very upset to find out he has been sleeping with a co worker for 8 months. My friend felt horrible, she didn't really think I'd find anything, but I did. I guess he forgot that he gave me his password, otherwise I'm sure he would have used adifferent account. I haven't even confronted him about it yet, he's over seas right now (his military). For those saying maybe he cheated cause of our sex life; I'll say that when he's actually home, we had sex a lot. I never heard any complaints. It really hurts that I'm home alone with our son, lonely and missing him, and I find out he's out romping around the town. All those times he didn't call me or my son wasn't really because he couldn't get to a phone... cause I found his phone bill on his e-mail account and he's been making calls to this girl. LOTS OF CALLS. I don't know if I will ever trust a person again. I thought he would have been the last person on earth to do this to me. :'(
Leviyah 0
I am so sorry that this happened to you :( I know words don't help...but you are not alone! Find some support around you, your friends and family are a great start. You can wait to confront him if you want to, but I personally would say something the very next time I got a call. I would start with asking why he is calling some other girl when he "isn't able" to call his wife or child...give him one chance to come clean. If he doesn't, start the divorce honey. You can not fix him, you need to protect yourself and your child from his lying and cheating...and for goodness sakes don't ever sleep with him again, god knows what he picked up from the ***** who laid him (who I assume knew he was married) I hate women like that. gah!
alexFYL 11
Oh honey. :( What you need to do is save or screenshot all of those emails and save them, in case you go to court (and I know you don't want to think about it, but it does and can happen). You need to be able to prove your side, even if you think your husband would never leave you blah blah blah, don't let yourself continue to be the victim - be prepared.
kikachu123 0
Hahahahahah! Kill him. Like while he's sleeping tie him to the top of you car, and crash into a tree no joke. (:
alexFYL 11
#45 Uh, "emotional cheating", have you heard of it? Most men cheat sexually while most women cheat emotionally. They both sort of lead down the same road. It's not the same as "just being friends", there's a fine line. As in, if a woman has a husband, and she's going on dates with another fellow, but they never kiss, hold hands, or have sex, but still have emotions for each other - that's cheating. That's not friendship, and it's most definitely not OK.