By no more mr nice guy - 27/12/2016 07:32
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I felt really bad for you until I read your username. if you think this happened because you're "too nice" and they're all "jerks", then I have no sympathy
He's not a very good friend. It's nice that he tried to set that up for you but knowing that you liked her should have stopped him from going to bed with her.
That's possible, but a good friend still would have backed off until they knew their friend would be okay with it. They're all adults and can do what they want with other consenting adults, but a good friend wouldn't purposely do things that could hurt their friends. If OP liked this girl enough that his friend was setting something up to get the two closer, there's no way he wouldn't know that it would hurt OP if he slept with her.
Well, now you know your crush is nothing but a slut. And your now ex-friend is a piece of SHIT. You're better off without them. Sucks how you had to find that out. Good luck OP.
18, first of all, adults can have consensual sexual with whomever they choose. That does not make them sluts. Second, where does it say the girl knew OP liked her? Even if she knew, what if she wasn't interested in OP? Does that mean she must remain celibate? I will agree, though, it does sound like OP's friend might be an asshole, and perhaps the three of them could have waited until OP left, but we don't know the full story.
The only reasonable reason I see to call someone a slut is if they are cheating. That means if THEY are dating someone and cheating means without your partners permission. The crush is not dating anyone that we know of and the threesome was something the couple agreed on.
18. Firstly, the girl didn't know that OP likes her. Secondly, you say she's a slut because she had sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend- it was a *threesome*. The guy's girlfriend was consenting to this. I can obviously see how OP's friend is in the wrong but OP's crush has done nothing wrong. Calling her a slut is very judgmental.