Today, my boyfriend took me to his grandfather's funeral. At the reception, his family members insist on hearing me play piano. After getting positive reactions, I dive into one of my favorites, Rustle of Spring. In 2 seconds everyone bursts into tears. That was Papa's favorite too. FML
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Thanksgiving
Questions about your love life, a burnt turkey and the cousin who knows everything: Thanksgiving, a contact sport.
Same thing different taste
Play 4′33″ by John Cage
Today, after I'd told this girl I’m seeing that I play piano to impress her, it turns out her father is a pianist and has a grand piano in their house. Tonight, I’m supposed to go to her place to play her my "favorite piece." FML
Today, during my grandmother's funeral, my talented ten-year-old son found the church organ and began playing Smells Like Teen Spirit. FML
Me me me
Today, I called my boyfriend to have a shoulder to cry on because my grandpa died. As soon as I told him, he started crying and telling me how much he missed his grandmother, who died six years ago. I spent the majority of the phone call listening to him wail. FML
Celebrate!
Today, I was DJ'ing a wedding. The groom wanted a song played for his grandma and grandpa. I announced over the microphone for his grandparents to come to the dance floor for a special song. Turns out his grandparents have been dead for over a year and the song was supposed to be in dedication. FML
Today, my boyfriend proposed to me during a funeral. FML
Today, I had my final piano performance. There is a guy in my class who constantly tells me I suck at piano, so I was looking forward to watching him play badly since he never practices. Instead, he played the most beautiful music that would make Mozart weep. He got a standing ovation. FML
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me at my grandma's funeral. FML
Today, my son and I attended my mother's funeral. It was the first time he'd been to such an event, so to ease his grief and distract him, I turned on Max and Ruby when we got home. He quickly broke into tears; apparently, it was the episode where Max and Ruby prepare their grandma a special birthday gift. FML
Grief and lies
Today, I attended my boyfriend's funeral. His entire family never accepted me and hadn’t spoken to him in 4 years. I had to listen to his brother give the eulogy, and every word out of his mouth about my boyfriend was a lie. They barely knew him, yet I could only sit in the back of the church, alone. FML
Bad omen or what?
Today, I was playing piano for a wedding rehearsal. Bored, I decided to pass the time playing through a book of music I found in the piano bench. Some time later the bride turned to me and screamed at me to stop. I had turned the page and had begun to play "Let's Call The Whole Thing Off." FML
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tamoomoo 0
If I was his family, I probably would have been touched. So don't feel too bad!
tick_tock 0
Don't feel bad, I'm sure they will appreciate it a little later. It's okay.
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carmel 0
#40 omg. that's soooo sad/gross!!! Poor mousie!!!!!!!! And that soooooooo should have been posted!
Emika_fml 0
I agree that this is not an FML, should never have made it past moderation, but... the bigger question, which no one in the first hundred-plus comments has answered, is why the OP felt that her life was f*ed. Just imagine the situation: she goes to the funeral. Maybe it's her first time meeting the family, or maybe she doesn't know them to well, and what a great occasion, everyone sobbing around the gravesite and her standing there awkwardly. At the reception/repast, she starts playing piano on request. Things are going well, people are relaxing a bit, maybe even a smile or two. The stress of the situation starts to lesson and the OP can feel that she contributed. Then suddenly she starts in on Rustle of Spring, and everyone is sobbing again. And she feels that this is all her fault. Which it kinda is. So yeah, I understand why you felt like FML at that moment. But, as everyone else has said, I'm sure the family saw it the opposite way, as just a kind act on your part.
fuckthatnoise 0
that was really sweet of you! I can't imagine anyone being offended
baffledking042 0
He might have even wanted it played.
AskingForIt 0
I agree with all the people saying don't feel bad, you're bringing back memories of him, you should remember the good about him and not the bad
DankJemo 0
If i was the grandfathers' family i would have been glad you played that song. If it was his favorite tune, I would make sure it got played at his funeral. I know when I bite the big one i would want a favorite song of mine played, there was no way for you to know, besides, I think you did the right thing, even if you didn't know it was his favorite song. This isn't a "fml" in fact I think you win some big points, the way I look at it. Besides, music helps people cope. It is a good way to get the emotions out, and even though people were crying, i am sure there were plenty of people who thought of him as the man he was, not his current state. We're all going to be dead someday. The best way to get through things like that is to remember how they were, and what they loved. Good work. It was a testimate to a man people obviously cared deeply for.
Dragonmouth 4
That actually sounds very nice.
YallNoobs 0
i dont understand how this is bad; i'm pretty sure they were touched. Agree with everyone here except those who didnt agree. IT WAS DESTINY
isgvfj 0
They were crying because they were touched.
Nathan727_fml 0
How in the world is this an FML?