Today, my boyfriend informed me that the mother of his children, from whom he is not divorced yet, is moving back into his house because she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. FML
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Halloween
A failed costume, stolen candy and a very real scare: Halloween, the one night when fear is allowed.
Same thing different taste
Today, my boyfriend of 8 years moved in with two other women. He's spent the past 2 years telling me he can't afford to move out of his parent's house. FML
I'm outta here
Today, I found out that after moving in with my mother and her boyfriend into his place two months ago, she's breaking up with him, and leaving me stuck with him. Awkward. FML
Today, I found out that after reuniting with an old boyfriend, getting close with his two year old son, and moving closer to him to properly be a part of their lives, he got back together with his ex-wife. FML
Surprise!
Today, my boyfriend told me he’d have a surprise for me when I got home. The surprise was he’d moved out, dumped me, and cut me off from his share of the bills, because he’s not interested in marriage and babies. I can’t afford the rent by myself so I’m going to have to move back to my mother's. FML
Don't tempt me
Today, I made the mistake of telling my boyfriend I was taking my kids to my mother's until he has decided if he wants to carry on being a boyfriend and stepfather. While we were gone, he apparently realised how good his life could be without us, and dumped me. I fucked up. FML
Coming and going
Today, after my relationship ended in a shambles, my partner finally moved out and we were broken up, now, just as I started talking to others and feeling OK with being alone, she revealed that the break was temporary and that she has to move back in temporarily. FML
Today, I let my estranged husband move back in with my son and me. Later, his pregnant and underage girlfriend knocked on my door, crying about how her mom kicked her out. I'm such a pushover, they're in my bed and I'm on the couch. FML
Technique
Today, my boyfriend broke up with me. How? He invited my mother to his house for coffee with his parents, and told her. She then had to come home and tell me I’d been dumped. FML
Independence day
Today, my boyfriend of four years broke up with me because he wanted some independence. He moved back into his parents' house. FML
Besties
Today, my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend just moved in with his mom. They've been in my face knitting and baking bread together. FML
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perdix 31
I believe the technical term for that woman is, um, . . . wife.
cradle6 13
Come on y'all. I know most of you have never been through a divorce (neither have I) but when you have kids with someone, you'll have a link to them for life. Not an emotional one necessarily, but literally you're going to have to interact with them a lot as long as your kids are minors. If you're uncomfortable with your boyfriend interacting with his soon to be ex-wife, then end it now, because it's not ever going away.
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Comments (182)
Tymaster5 22
so let me get this straight your boy friend's wife ish is moving back in cause she broke up her boy friend so your boy friend was cheated on i think and he hasn't divorced her yet
techgirl32 0
OMG!! Are you talking about me???
candymaker1 0
he sounds like a real winner anyway.....
beachya 1
I was in this situation before... It was awkward but short lived. All I can say is if you plan to be with him forever and he treats you right, suffer through it... If not... Walk away while you still can and let them enjoy their awkward times together. Yes, when children are involved there is always a bond to the person but that, in my opinion is taking it too far.
beachya 1
I don't know your details but in my situation he had full custody and she took the kids every other weekend (at the very best) so the kids had a roof over their heads with or without that piece of crap ex around.
Reality_bites 14
OP, sorry in my opinion their relationship is not over if your boyfriend is letting her move back in. He might say its just for the kids but in reality he told you why - she broke up with her boyfriend and has nowhere to go. Meaning that now that she s available again he wants to try again. And it sounds like to me that shes not over him either. I mean she has accepted his offer hasnt she to move in? Clearly for him to offer and her to accept they have spent quite a deal of time talking about it and have decided its something they BOTH want or could deal with and are using the kids to explain the decision while they work out the details. Where was the consultation with YOU by him or her or from both of them about this decision being made, if you were such an important part of his life, it sounds like u didnt even get a say!? It doesnt matter who left who or who cheated or not on who, this relationship is not going to work out for you. Why? Because he still has feelings for her, she still has feelings for him and living daily together under one roof is going to pretty much guarantee they are going to have regular opportunities to get back toegether. Sorry but if he was serious about you, YOU would be the one living with him. Time to cut your losses.
Okayitwasme 0
Where is her family? Mother? Father, siblings or cousins? She could bunk elsewhere!
keshaforever1 14
Why are you dating someone that is married??Wtf YDI bitch >:I
desireev 18
You shouldn't have been dating a married man. You couldn't have honestly expected that to work out in your favor, did you?? I mean come on!!!
ThatsFckdUp 0
Wat a fckn bitch!
desireev 18
There should not be a matter of "breaking up"!!! HE IS MARRIED WITH CHILDREN!!!! SHE SHOULD HAVE WAITED FOR THE DIVORCE PAPERS TO START "DATING" HIM!!!!