By TheHeirofTime - 31/05/2016 20:45 - United States - Marlborough
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Sorry about that OP, but obviously he wasn't worth it, you definitely dodged a bullet there.
He simply realized you were so far out of his league that he might as well not even attempt it. At least, that's what I tell myself every time it happens to me...
considering that im at peace, after accepting both good and bad aspects of myself... well, im not really proud of my status of Emperor Asshole, but, its still a part of who i am. i can be less of an asshole. much less. but doing that doesn't make it me, or my native personality. its expensive to run non-native personality aspects, with no real reward.
You may be pretty. he probably thought your toes looked creepy as shit and didn't wanna fuck with that
Hopefully you weren't nekkid in the photo, then it'd be a YDI. If you just exchanged selfies and he blocked you he's not a nice guy. Don't let this discourage you!
Have you tried getting out and meeting people instead of doing so on-line? Maybe a friend knows someone they can set you up with (my fiancé is one of my best friend's brother) or you can take a class and meet people there...
There is nothing wrong with online dating. Your relationship is not better just because you met through friends or wherever else. Seriously, what's the difference between meeting a random stranger in a class then going on a date, vs meeting a random stranger online then going on a date? Either way your relationship still starts out the same way, as strangers that don't really know each other. Meeting online is not bad or shameful. 1 in 4 relationships begin online, and it's increasing. It can be a lot easier to get to know someone online first then go on a date when you know you are compatible vs going on dates to find out if you're compatible. It's also a lot easier for introverts, like myself, where conversing online is easier and where social interaction with unknown people can be uncomfortable. I met my boyfriend online, Plenty of Fish to be exact. He's the best guy I've ever known and dated, sweet, caring, respectful and smart. He treats me better than anyone I've ever known. We're basically exactly the same in almost every way. We're very compatible and I got to know all this because I met and talked to him online first. We're celebrating our 1 year anniversary today.
My dad's brother so my uncle and his wife, my aunt met online. They have now been together for almost 10 years and pretty happy from what I've gathered from my aunt. My point is online dating can work for some people but not everyone. However there is an increase of people meeting online and starting to date.
I completely agree. I too met my boyfriend on POF, and after many failed dates with the wrong people I finally met him and knew from the get go that things would go well. On our first date we sat there talking for hours, whereas I'm normally quite shy around new people. My sister set me up on a blind date with her boyfriend's best mate, and he was pretty much the same person as my sister's boyfriend. They thought we would go well together but we most definitely did not. It was incredibly awkward and I didn't know much about him at all, it didn't help that my sister wanted it to be a double date and took us to a noisy bowling alley. Anyone my friends or family tried to set me up with ended up being the complete opposite of someone I would get on with. Online dating helped me find someone with similar interests. We've been together 7 months now and it's a lot better than my previous experiences. Yes there are some weirdos, but those are everywhere.