Don't talk to them for a few years and I am willing to bet they'd learn to make time for you.

#26, that is a terrible thing to say, and perhaps you should READ what it says! She hasn't seen her parents in a long time, so she clearly doesn't come home too often, and doesn't need to learn independence, and parents should love their children and want to be around them regardless of their personalities, so for them to tell her not to come home is terribly hurtful, especially since they don't have anything planned.