By maza - 09/08/2019 22:00

Today, I made a nice meal for myself and sat down to eat. Suddenly, my dad burst into my room saying, “We have to go.” This isn’t the first time it’s happened, nor was it an emergency. My family just doesn’t tell me when we have plans. FML
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If they make plans without telling you, they can go without you. Don't let them push their shit on you.

happens to me too sometimes. I just tell them to leave without me.

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well do you tell them you are eating and ask if they have plans before making food? how old are you?

If they make plans without telling you, they can go without you. Don't let them push their shit on you.

I mean, of course, unless they were going to a kick-ass Chinese buffet or a super fancy restaurant... I remember being a teen and my plans were nothing compared to a REALLY nice paid meal. 8)

So you're involved with the family enough, or young enough, that they dictate your schedule. Yet you cooked an entire meal only for yourself, not as a family or shared meal. I think the communication issues go both ways here.

happens to me too sometimes. I just tell them to leave without me.

Tell them "Have fun and/or good luck" and continue on with your meal.