I'm really sorry to hear that. it might be worth getting some couples counselling, or if he won't come with you, getting it by yourself.

Definitely counseling. There's something more going on here...

I was in a marriage like that. After 15 years (not separated the whole time, of course), it turned out that she preferred the distance because then I didn't "bother" her, and she didn't feel obligated.

He won’t hug you? That’s worse than sexless — you haven’t even made it into the Friend Zone! Your marriage is a ruse.

He won’t even hug you? You need to ask him straight out what is going on. That is pretty harsh.

Is it because you grew out your ginger beard and now look like Yosemite Sam?

feeling sad for you

''Today, my wife thought it would be better to talk to strangers online about our marital problems instead of me, her husband. FML''

Time for a divorce sounds like he has somebody else 😐

Divorceeeee