You tried but they do not want you and your family obviously. Forget about them then, concentrate on your husband and kids, and stop give them any importance.

don't worry about those people cuz that's exactly what they are...people they r messed up and ridiculous jus focus on your life and your family look at it as one less obligation to fulfill

I hate it when family does that shit. I would try not to give them any more thought. Your husband and son are what's most important. This is where if your son can't spend time with family you build your own family out of close friends and their children. That way your son will have the kind of family he deserves. (I'm assuming your son is young here.)

Write them off, they aren't worth worrying about!

Stuff like this doesn't happen without a reason. Time to confront them and demand an answer. I have a feeling you aren't going to like the answer.

you don't need that treatment in your families life.

Don't take it personally -- blame your husband. He probably fucked things up with his family long ago.

You have your own family, and for now, that is what you need to focus on. Who gives a damn what the in-laws get up to? As long as they aren't manipulative or nasty, I would take this as a sign to move on. You don't need them to have a happy family.

Just let it go. my mother in law is convinced herself I made my wife gay. Seriously she never calls the anniversary of my father in laws death is in a couple of weeks. We're doing our own thing

I bet your husband knows why but he can't tell you