By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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Show it anywayOh whatever people. she's not a ****, you're just ****** up. Get with the times. How come a man can get with hundreds of chicks and its cool, but a chick can't **** one guy without being a ****? A **** wouldn't use condoms in the first place. Anyway, hun, he's a creeper. I had me one of those. Get rid of him.
At least he loves you?
FYL for sure. Not sure how you couldn't realize the condom had been removed, but whatever, I guess everyone's ****** is different. Anyway, the two most important things to do are for you to head to your nearest drugstore to get Plan B and then get yourself tested for STDs. After that making it clear to him that all contact between the pair of you must be severed immediately is imperative. If he resists, threaten a restraining order.
plan B.
jesus f***ing christ, some people on here really p*ss me off. So what if she had sex on the 2nd date? Did u hear her? She said she'd been SEEING him a while - that could mean any length of time they've been hanging out/getting to know each other before going on an official "date." And what the hell does it matter anyway? Just because you have sex on the 2nd date, it doesn't make you a "****." In fact, these days- I'd say it's pretty normal. You have to know if you're sexually compatible from the get-go. There's nothing wrong with that. I had sex with my b/f on the 2nd date and we're still together now - no complications. It's called LIFE, grow the f*** up and go find out for yourself. And sometimes it's very difficult to tell if there's a condom on, due to many things - excitement, lube, being caught up in the moment, etc.... It's OK for you boys to judge and be all "how can u NOT tell? etc...." but NEWSFLASH - it's incredibly easy not to notice - especially if someone pulls a fast one and takes it off while you're all caught up in the moment. Guess you haters wouldn't know - in fact, I'm guessing you never got laid. No-one with half a sensible brain who's known the joy and fun of sex would judge the OP for this. As for the OP - I hope things worked out for u. But that guy sounds ALARMING.
YDI for not being on the pill
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.