By SoniaLovesYou - 10/08/2012 12:18 - United States
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Wish I could say this WAS fake, but sadly it happened. Although it shouldn't matter, I will go ahead and mention that the guy is Mexican and most likely grew up in a culture that generally looks down on contraception; but it doesn't excuse what he did. Thanks to those of you expressing concern; I plan on taking the morning after pill and everything should be fine, but I am still intensely freaked over this. To those of you thinking I deserved it, I'll mention that I DID know the guy previous to this and quite liked him; this was a part of himself that he kept hidden until now. To those calling me a ****: I agree that sex has taken over our culture, especially with regard to young people, but having what I thought was safe sex with someone I knew and liked (and didn't realize was a psychopath!) does not mean that I have no self control. And Ichigoner, you're absolutely right - this guy and the "Be my baby's daddy!" girl would make a perfect couple, and probably end up making that octuplet mom look bad....
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madmad080
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not everyone is totally pure whoever said that learn what your talking about. nobody is totally pure but you can be forgiven.
You can't tell the difference?? Come on....
elara15
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Madmad, a couple who does not believe in premarital sex or birth control would most likely not believe in divorce, either. Your alleged sociological findings do not account for happiness or security. It's been my understanding that the religiously self-righteous attack the families of others because they are not content with their own choices. Sex was never just "created," though I agree it should be saved for a mature, long-term relationship, which doesn't necessarily indicate marriage.
jw987654321
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ydi for putting out on the second date
not bad, when i get a chick to fall for that one, on the third date, i try, oops i slipped butt sex
Haha you rape people you're sooo funny
FYL, cause well. ouch, but YDI, for having sex on the second date, you obviously barely knew this guy!!!
I can only hope you stomped on his groin a few times, someone like that shouldn't be breeding. Don't forget to get yourself tested! >.
eh? only your second date and your already having sex with him? ydi
#100: I too am in college and see the same sexual culture you describe. Just because (almost) 'everyone does it' is not a defense. Also, it does not mean that everyone will make the same decision. We all have decisions to make in this life. However, I do think people are being harsh. The OP made a choice to trust someone, who she said she knew, or at least thought she did. It is HIS wrongdoing not hers, though the fact she had sex on a second date is controversial. I think everyone should try a little harder to understand this from her point of view, and remember we all make bad choices at some point. #149 Some of us really haven't done any of those things. I am in college and have never had sex, but I'm not about to call the OP a **** for this. It really wasn't her fault. This was a matter of trust being misused and broken by someone else. The people saying she is a **** and nothing more should back off. Once is enough, around 200 is just cruelty. lilyhm: I'm sorry this happened to your sister. I know this can be rough on everyone. I know some people really love her, so don't mind the ridicule of judgemental strangers on the internet. I hope everything has turned out okay, and I can't tell you how much I respect your loyalty and love for your sister. The world needs more people who actually care like you do. OP: I can't even describe how much I empathize with you. It sounds like you knew and trusted this guy, and he betrayed you. I hope everything turned out all right. Never speak to him again. Forgive him if/when you can, but never forget. Don't ever trust him again, because you deserve better than that. If it is hard lean on your sister. Sometimes it helps to have someone just believe in you, and from the way she responded she sounds like she would go to hell and back with you. Not many sisters would. Mine definitely would not. FYL because this wasn't your fault. I hope you get plan B or something. I sincerely hope that your life is great, and you find someone who can actually value and respect your trust. As for everyone else, tell them to **** off. It's your life, and nobody else's opinion matters, not even mine.
AntiChrist7
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Don't dating freaks would help a lot. YDI
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I don't think she deserves it. If she wants to have sex with someone on a second date that's her perogative. She could have known him before. If I were her I'd tell him about the herepes they could share along with their child.
Women shouldn't be judged more harshly than men for having any kind of sex. Period. Now I'm going to go prove my point and make a statement with my boyfriend by tying him up and branding him.