By SoMuchForThatIdea - 12/06/2017 00:00
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So? Just because you have a thing for him doesn't mean he needs to. The concept of friend zone is immature. Maybe that's why he doesn't want to be with you. You think like a teenager. Grown adults realize the person you are in go doesn't have to feel the same way and they move on with their lives. Try it.
Feeling entitled to someone romantically or sexually is creepy as hell regardless of gender. You aren't doing yourself any favors by believing in that "friend zone" shit.
People definitely need to realize this. Whenever I've felt like I was stuck in a place that was going to go nowhere and I didn't have the intention of just being a friend, I just stopped talking to them. Besides, it feels awkward listening to them talk about their boyfriend. I do have female friends, but that's because there's also no romantic interest involved with them. (In which that feeling is mutual.)
If you knew it was for another woman (his girlfriend I'm guessing?), you really didn't have to go. ''I feel weird helping you buy lingerie'' is a perfectly good excuse.
This needs a follow-up. Did you hope that you would be dating him? Did you know he has a significant other? inquiring minds want to know.