lol that's not how it was. Get the WHOLE story before you judge kid.

Who's judging whom now? You're calling her "kid" when she's 2 years older than you. You know what they say about people who live in glass houses.

I haven't placed judgement upon her. Kid is a nickname far better than "bastard" or anything else I could come up with. I'm stating my opinion that she should know the full extent first before thinking she knows what's what. I did not intend "kid" to be taken harshly, and if it is, then the reader needs to grow up.

I don't see why OP took such offense to that comment. It seems to me the commenter was not judging, instead she was giving some simple advice regarding OP's safety. Granted, she didn't read the comments before her, so she didn't see the follow-up. Still, she meant well and did not at all judge, compared to most comments before her. What is all the fuss about, OP?

OP was just pointing out that pretty much the whole story is there to read, if you take the time.

She wrote the full story after some people already commented.

Ehh I wasn't really fussing. I just don't like when people tell me what's what without knowing. ya know? I didn't take it as advice so much as bashing..

What's wrong with her wanting to hang out in a non sexual way? Why does that make her a hoe that she's not interested in you like that or so called "flirted" with other guys when she has no obligation to you. Ok she liked you enough to want to get to know you doesn't mean she wanted to date you. Why is this such a freakin hard concept for people?

Was she flirting with you at any point? If not, the whole "oh noes, a woman is not sexually/romantically interested in me, but dared express interest in meeting me at a bar anyway, she must be a ho-bag" thing is kind of rude. And even if she was, take your ego down a few notches, dude. Not every woman is going to fall at your feet, nor should you expect them to. Try having a little respect.

Bar culture usually dictates that when a guy and girl exchange numbers, it is for sexual or romantic reasons. However, I have met a lot of my current friends in bars. I tend to go places that have tables and aren't loud, throbbing dance clubs, but still, you meet a lot of interesting people that way. I have been in a similar situation, where I met a guy, we talked for about two hours, and he seemed really cool. I did not hang on him, wasn't drunk, and didn't say anything about dating/hooking up. He said he would like to hang again, gave me his number, and left with a group of girls he was "friends" with. I invited him to play pool with a group of friends, including the guy I was 'dating' at the time. The guy proceeds to throw his arms around me, kiss me on the cheek, and grope my ass. Really awkward, I had to explain I was not interested in him and for him to lose my number.

lol I wasn't that drunk. The guy I met up with was someone random that I hadn't given my # to...I just thought he was.

im not why you have to keep repeating this... people cant really be that stupid, can they? I guess so aince you have repeated it about 5 times so far...

Did you find out how he got your number?

No :( I don't know how to ask..

well, "So, out of curiosity, how did you get my number again?" is one way to go.