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By  JadeMinu  |  13

That's actually pretty rough to hear, but hopefully she didn't mean what she said... Maybe she had a tough day and decided to take it out on you..Just let her be for the day, and then when she's a bit calmer, talk to her about it, or at least let her know she did hurt your feelings a bit..

By  FitnessFirst  |  15

I'll be the first to tell you, God doesn't work that way. Your mother is praying herself a one way ticket to hell...you should confront her about that- if you care enough whether she goes to hell or not.

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  GhostFox  |  42

That's because it is, because this is a common way for an abuser to abuse their victim that largely leaves the victim unable to retaliate or defend themself. The abusers stages something like what OP heard where they know the victim will see or hear it, then pretend they didn't do anything. This means the victim either: A) Has to endure it because they are afraid of being punished, and thus makes it easier for the abuse to take root. OR B) Denies/counters the abusive claims, and gets punished for "eavesdropping" It's used in conjunction with gaslighting a lot, as well.

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