By Anonymous - 26/08/2021 14:01
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I don't know either of you well enough to make an informed vote but you two need to actually talk with each other about what each of you want out of this marriage, then work together on a solution that leaves both of you happy or at least better off. Couples therapy wouldn't hurt, either.
You tried to use an abusive manipulation tactic and got surprised when it backfired ... if you're the kind of person who naturally thinks that way, he probably appreciated having a few days of not being micromanaged. If you want to save your marriage, you need to talk like adults, and maybe get a relationship councillor involved.