you still did the right thing.

better off without him but good for you for still saving his life!

Like hell it’s your fault. Threatening suicide to manipulate another is abusive and toxic. Only he is responsible for his behavior. He’s the one who cheated, and he’s the one trying to manipulate you to escape the consequences. Usually I’d say to really consider if you can forgive him and if you want to stay in the relationship before starting a divorce, but in this case, I’d say this is a million red flags. Get out. It’ll only get worse. You are not responsible for what he’s done or what he does in the future. Only he is!

This current mess is not your fault at all. Your mistake was marrying this asshole in the first place.

Hope to god ya'll don't have kids together.

What does it matter what he thinks? He sounds very unwell

seems like he has a lot of issues to sort out, and because of his cheating he'll be sorting them out alone. it sucks now but you came out on top when looking at the long term

Wow that’s manipulation, gaslighting, self-victimizing and a whole bunch of controlling behaviours in attempts to gain your sympathy. I’m sorry this happened to you OP. This is not easy.