People show their true colors when you need them. Remember this as you continue your relationship. You deserve someone to be there for you too.

If you don't get what you give then you need to consider moving on. You'll just end up resenting the hell out of him otherwise.

big red flag that he doesn't respect you and is just using you. you deserve better.

Get out of that relationship. I’m probably older than you are and I don’t want you to waste your time and energy. I was a 40 year old widow when I started dating a 45 year old divorced guy. A year in, he needed surgery on his shoulder, so it was not a life or death thing. I got someone to take care of my kids and pets so I could take him and be there with him in the hospital. I brought him food every day. I cleaned his house and did laundry. I drove him to all of his follow-up appointments. About six months later, I got very sick. He didn’t take me to the ER; a girlfriend of mine did. He didn’t go pick up my medicines or other supplies; a girlfriend did. One day, I was feeling worse and got scared that I might have to go back to the hospital and be admitted. I called him. He said “make yourself some chicken soup.” THE END. If you can see it clearly in my case, see it in your case.

did you say Boyfriend or ex boyfriend? because, you're very veryyyy single