You can't put kindness coins in and eventually expect a return on investment in relationship coins. That isn't how it works for incels and that isn't how it works for you. I'm sorry that you got your heart broken, but on some level, you brought this on yourself.

you can't be expecting something in return just because you help them. you should do it because you want to be a good friend. you know to spread kindness. maybe he didn't want to mess up the friendship that he has with you. it's on you. you probably didn't talk about your feelings towards him directly. no one is a mind reader.

Girl **** him. He’s for the streets. He took advantage of your kindness then chose some other bytch. Unfortunately, he let you down gently and used “healing from divorce” as an excuse. A man who’s into you will move mountains to be with you. He wasn’t the one. All he did was string you along until he found someone else. “Made him believe in love again?” What were you then? Chopped liver? Smh nah girl. Drop him like a hot potatoe and cut of all contact. When his new bytch act up, then he’s gonna remember what he once had. Too damn bad. People don’t realize what they had until they lose it. Don’t let people take advantage of you and chose someone who will appreciate you from the jump and not someone who makes excuses and lies. You got this boo.

You need to amend that: You're not good enough FOR HIM... Move on and you'll probably find someone who will find you "good enough," maybe even better.

it’s nothing about being good enough or not. but frankly to be his friend only with the ulterior motive of trying to make him romantically interested in you is, well, gross. do better for yourself and the people around you