Single life

By AnonThoughts - 19/09/2021 17:00

Today, I'm single again, after my now ex attacked my best friend out of jealousy, forcing me to choose between 25 years of friendship and 3 months of a relationship. FML
I agree, your life sucks 1 133
You deserved it 125

Same thing different taste

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You did the right thing. If she wanted to get rid of your friends after only three months, it wouldn't have gone well in the long run.

Why is the choice between a long-term friendship and a failed fling a difficult one? There's more to it than this, I suspect.

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Why is the choice between a long-term friendship and a failed fling a difficult one? There's more to it than this, I suspect.

You did the right thing. If she wanted to get rid of your friends after only three months, it wouldn't have gone well in the long run.

Yummi_913 18

Damn, they really didn't wait long to show their abusive side.

Yep good! Let the trash take itself out. You don't need that shit.

I've been in almost that exact, same boat. if anyone ever forces you to choose, then you don't choose them! a true friend regardless of the relationship will never make you choose. they may disagree, they may speak up about it from time to time, but they will support you in your decisions and be there to catch you if you do fall. and jealousy is always a killer. there is healthy jealousy, and unhealthy. that is a example of unhealthy jealousy handled in an unhealthy way. I truly think you dodged a bullet with your ex. good luck to you! It will get better!

My ex did this, we got back together and before we made it official he was like you need to cut this person and this person and this person out of your life. Noticed what he was doing and dropped him like a potato for the 4th time 🙄

Glitterbaby2613 20

you chose the right option, ❤️ I would've done the same, do t worry hun there will be better choices that understand the importance of life long relationship

gidonene 7

this should have been an extremely easy choice but the sex was probably insane

Doom_Kitty 12

Very good. People who think they have the right to give others ultimatums are most likely toxic and unsure assholes :) I'd done the same!

DoctorPALO 14

I am sorry that you're in this predicament but I must ask; is your bestie of 25 years also a female? If so, (and I am not saying it's right, but) your now ex-girlfriend was probably jealous, and believes that "guys and girls can't just be friends."