By xlees - 18/8/2021 10:01 - New Zealand

Romance is dead

Today, it was my last day with my boyfriend before he went back to Germany. He lovingly said to me, "I will never find another girl like you. Unless I rip off her leg and tear out her eye." I’m an amputee, and was born with a blind eye. FML
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By  cacheson  |  41

Humor like that is only okay if it has already been established as acceptable in the relationship. Sounds to me like it wasn’t in your case. :(

By  cuz803  |  43

That's insensitive. Please talk to your boyfriend about it because an apology is warranted. He needs to work on his sense of humor. If he doesn't see anything wrong with it, that's a potential red flag cause it's a sign of disregarding your feelings.

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By  cuz803  |  43

That's insensitive. Please talk to your boyfriend about it because an apology is warranted. He needs to work on his sense of humor. If he doesn't see anything wrong with it, that's a potential red flag cause it's a sign of disregarding your feelings.

By  cacheson  |  41

Humor like that is only okay if it has already been established as acceptable in the relationship. Sounds to me like it wasn’t in your case. :(

By  Sonotsuave  |  33

That’s extremely weird and distasteful to say. Even if you both have rapport or comfort making off color jokes on that level, it’s still not a very appropriate thing to say in general or in the moment. I’m sorry