Red flags all over the place

By Anonymous - 30/04/2023 05:00 - Japan - Nagano

Today, I messaged the guy I like, with whom I’ve felt we've been disconnected, and would like to talk soon to reconnect. We talked, but all he would do is answer my questions with blatant lies. FML
I agree, your life sucks 540
You deserved it 174

Same thing different taste

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Just because you like someone doesn’t mean they will like you back. Life is full of instances of that. Not everyone is compatible… If you feel they are lying to you, then you might as well forget it and move on. You cannot build a relationship on lies nor can you build a relationship with someone who’s just not that interested in you… On the other hand there is no such thing as “the one love of my life”. There are multiple potential people out there who may be a compatible match for you and you for them. But you won’t find them if you are hung up on one person who’s not really interested in you.

What sort of questions were you asking that would make them want to lie?

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What sort of questions were you asking that would make them want to lie?

Just because you like someone doesn’t mean they will like you back. Life is full of instances of that. Not everyone is compatible… If you feel they are lying to you, then you might as well forget it and move on. You cannot build a relationship on lies nor can you build a relationship with someone who’s just not that interested in you… On the other hand there is no such thing as “the one love of my life”. There are multiple potential people out there who may be a compatible match for you and you for them. But you won’t find them if you are hung up on one person who’s not really interested in you.

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how do you know hes lying tho?

I find this story fascinating and compelling! I'll bet he finds you so intimidating and gorgeous that he is ashamed of his squalid life and lies to impress you. You should pursue him harder and ignore restraining orders because that's a good idea. Blatant lying is kinda fun...