By Anonymous


  Today, I realised that unless I masturbate about an hour before sex, sex lasts less than 20 seconds, but even after masturbating I’m still lucky to last a single minute. I don’t know how to stop disappointing her, and she’s my first serious girlfriend. I’m pathetic. FML
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By  Sady_Ct  |  37

You can get condoms that desensitize the male.

By  Nhayaa  |  21

You're not pathetic, you're a premature ejaculator and it actually affects lots of men. As you were told in another comment, go for a second round!

By  LackyLacy  |  5

Foreplay does wonders. Use your hands on her body and tease her. Also realize that sex isn't just pumping your penis into someone.

If nothing else, talk to her about it. I'm sure she would love to give you pointers. Or sex therapy is a thing to help both of you improve communication about what is expected/realistic.

By  Suaria  |  37

Try cock rings