The rhythm method

By Anonymous - 05/07/2022 18:00

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Today, my girlfriend has two speeds in bed: so slow that it’s just not exciting for me, or so hard and fast, I can’t physically keep up and it starts to hurt. We’ve discussed our different needs a bunch, but so we’ve had sex every night this week and I only orgasmed once, masturbating in the shower. FML
I agree, your life sucks 944
You deserved it 192

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rudico67 7

I'm sorry this is happening to you, but on the other hand, this what most women experience.

So, she needs to upgrade her gearbox, if you know what I mean ;) Do you know what I mean? I don't, maybe you can explain it to me. Thanks.

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So, she needs to upgrade her gearbox, if you know what I mean ;) Do you know what I mean? I don't, maybe you can explain it to me. Thanks.

wrenavery90 12

Communication!!! Its not going to get better unless you 2 talk.

rudico67 7

I'm sorry this is happening to you, but on the other hand, this what most women experience.

Get on top. You can be in control of speed then

You need to set boundaries. If you two can't find a middle ground for you both and can't imagine just having separate sex lives (either solo or via polyamory) it might be time to reconsider if the relationship is going to work out. Sexual compatibility is not EVERYTHING, but it can be big to some people. If that's you two, concessions need to be made or y'all should break up.